i really love this guy. only religion hinders us. im really confused. he told me that we will not discussed it but it still bothers me because when we have children how are we going to raise them? he loves God but we have a different views
2007-01-08 07:46:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
God is not about religion.
I belive in God, and I pray. I am teaching my son to look at different religions, to see which one takes his intrest. Different views don't mean they are wrong. accept who he is, ask that he accept who you are and take comfort in the fact that you both have strong relationships with God.
2007-01-08 09:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar issue regarding different religions with my partner. From what i know, this is a major obstacle in relationships. You will not be able to marry him if the both of you have strong beliefs on each side. The children will be affected in the future. If neither one of you agrees to convert, then there is no way to have a future with one another. I love my boyfriend a lot but due to the huge obstacle about our religions, I will have to let go sooner or later. If you want to be happy, then do not marry him. This issue proves that he is not the right man for you.
2007-01-08 16:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by senkk1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what the word says about being with someone that is not equally yoke. Now you are Christian and he's not you already know the answer to that.....you should not married. We as christian, need men that are equally yoked with us meaning believing in the same values as we do. It's unfortunately that so many women especially Christian women fall for the non-christian. If he truly loves God why isn't he a christian? It seems like to me if you love God then you want to be part of God's kingdom. As always, you need to seek counsel and pray about this situation before you marry this guy.
2007-01-08 16:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You HAVE to discuss it. Its an issue that you will have to deal with now or later on in life and if you really love each other you should be able to reach a compromise. Usually the children follow the religion of the mother.
2007-01-08 15:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it,s all right to marry a non christian you have to study your bible and know what your job will be when you marry him to keep it short it is your job to make sure your husband is saved take your time and don,t rush him you have to feed him baby food first then you can feed him solid food when he is ready someone on here said equally yoked that means marry someone like minded I don,t have my bible with me or I would look it up for you so you can read up on what a man and a woman are to each other it,s beautiful our God left nothing to chance it,s all spelled out in your bilbe be ready for a good fight because that is the last thing the devil wants to see is another christian may God bless you both
2007-01-08 16:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the worse problem you ever have, it's going to be an easy life. The key word here is compromise! If you think a compromise on this issue is a tough one....... just wait. Marriage is the best education on compromise there is.
Remember that Christianity teaches forgivness and acceptance!
2007-01-08 15:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by open_phunguy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is unwilling to discuss it then you have an issue. I would not marry the dude until you DID discuss it. WHat are you going to do if after you get married you can not come to an agreement?
This is a bad start to a bad marriage.
2007-01-08 16:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't marry him. Religion is the most stupid thing to fight about, but if you are already worried, don't go through with it. There are enough confused children in the world. Go marry another "christian" like yourself.
2007-01-08 15:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are supposed to marry only someone who is equally yoked as you. If you have no idea what this means, do some research, every Christian should know what this means.
2007-01-08 15:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That does not sound good to me. He says "we will not discuss it?". My answer to that would be "we WILL discuss it, or there will be no marriage". That is NOT a subject you want to be unsure of if your religion is important to you. It also does not bode well for your future relationship if he is so reluctant to discuss something this important.
2007-01-08 16:11:21 · answer #10 · answered by Debbie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋