My heart has been broken and it seems like life will never be the same.
2007-01-08 07:27:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Everyone has been so supportive and wonderful today! I'm feeling some hope for the first time in a long time that maybe my life will change and I can learn to be trusting again. Thanks so much to all who answered!
2007-01-08 07:44:46 · update #1
On your own time you will find out. You have been through such a negative experience you need to be around a lot of positive experience. Life won't be the same, it will be better. There will be points of sadness when you are alone, but what you need to figure out is how to regain that sense of independence and know that your friends/family will always be there if you start to slip. Don't try to rush happiness. That will dissapoint you even further. Let it happen, it will come. The best is when your ex becomes a passing thought. You will be surprised and something good will come along and your past experience will make you better prepared for it. Good luck in fixing yourself. That's all you can do right now. No one handles rejection well, but if you can twist your mindset to where you loved and learned. You have been conditioned to not make the same mistakes you did last time.
2007-01-08 08:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think only you will know when you will be over this heart break. Asking this question is a reach out for someone to help you see through a dark period. If you put it into prospective it may be even easier for you to get through this time. There is going to be a day that you will wake up and the last thing on your mind is him and the first thing on your mind is you. Until that day comes keep your friends close and your heart even closer. Best wishes for you.
2007-01-08 15:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by Ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been told that it takes half as long as the amount of time you were together. But I think it really depends on how much effort you put into working through your loss and coming to terms with it. If you rid yourself of wishful thinking (totally) and you make a conscious decision to let go, the healing process can be fairly quick. The heart's ability to love again depends on it's ability to forgive and seek new beginnings!
2007-01-08 15:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how long you were with that person. it might take months and it might take years. but you have to realize it is a very hard process getting over someone that you really care about. it just doesn't happened in one day or one night. also yes you will be able to love and care again but you have to wait until that right person comes along. you know the one that makes your heart beat speed up, the one who makes the palms of your hands sweat. that's when you know your true love is there to stay forever.
2007-01-08 15:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by Badydoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right perspective takes time. Embrace what you are feeling right now. It's okay to be sad and wish you could turn back time. It's absolutely normal. Remember the good times and smile. The sadness will fade with time. You'll be okay. Sing that song "Every little thing is gonna be alright".
Love will come later. Hang out with your friends now and find something to laugh about.
2007-01-08 15:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by BParker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approximately 300 years.
My heart was broken by someone I loved. I found my now wife about 6 months later. About 6 months after that, I was over the other one.
2007-01-08 15:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My lawyer told me it takes 3 months for every year you with with the person as a general rule. Just don't jump into anything. Learn from the divorce. It does get better with time. I know I didn't believe it either, but each day does get better. Good luck and God Bless
2007-01-08 16:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes never, some take the one road i'd advise agianst,suicide.But slowly you will see pretty flowers again sun and blue skies.But i know for sure u can get back into life again.My ex still makes me sad,but thats over,Keep u r head up.Youy'll find someone even better.Look on peoples 360's.Find a friend chat it up.make new friends.Want to chat with me it's ok.I always try my best to give pos advice.Peace
2007-01-08 15:39:42 · answer #8 · answered by Victorio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will be the same soon and u will be back on track . it just takes time to heal. we all heal, forgetting is bless from God u know . anyhow, having someone as a friend or lots of good ones will sure help alot. and the day will come when u are able to love again , if it is ment to be then it will be :)))))))))))))))))))))))))) . but that does not delete any sweete memories u have with this someone. been there, done that .
2007-01-08 15:33:16 · answer #9 · answered by Moh B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's true. Your heart will never be the same.
Each person we love in our lives is a flower that we add to the bouquet in our heart. We never throw away a flower from our heart bouquet, but some fade as time goes on. They are still loved, but as a memory.
Another love will happen for you - another flower for your heart's bouquet. No one can say what size your bouquet will be in your lifetime, but cherish and love each flower as it is given to you along the way.
You will love again little one. Just believe...
2007-01-08 15:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋