My husband walked out on me and the two kids, one of whom is disabled, for another woman. The friends immediately began to invite him and the other woman to events. No, I am not a horrible person and they express sympathy but still support him with their friendship and acceptance of what he has done. I have seen this before. If a wife leaves the husband for another man, she is a huzzy and excommunicated from the group, "Poor poor John, good ridance for the witch." I don't get it. Is it just sexism, pure and simple? And the woman are the worst offenders.
2007-01-08 07:25:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It is sexism. And this world is VERY sexist.
Dump the friends.
Who needs them if they're going to side with such a jerk. Find new friends. They're everywhere!
Women are the worst offenders because women are backstabbing and cruel. Men aren't as backstabbing and cruel, but they are cold hearted.
My advise is find new friends, and tell your husband to stay the heck away from you.
2007-01-08 07:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the journey that they are his friends this is not impressive in any respect. human beings take the basic route and do not desire the duty of doing what's ideal. in the journey that they made friends with you after the divorce, they could ought to confess that they knew issues, suggested issues etc. and may want to ought to absorb for you And your little ones. human beings do merely not favor to attempt this for the period of present day society of selfishness. I wager he's a celebration goer and has a lot extra time than you do because of the youngsters; he does not ought to take them or will communicate about them etc. Sorry about the challenge, inspite of the indisputable fact that it truly is extra effective to make a sparkling set of strong friends who can relate to you and your challenge, assist you, be there for you, not kick you even as your down.
2016-12-02 00:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by minogue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's time to look for new friends? Friend's don't take sides do they?. Did they invite you? What do you think now? They sound pretty shallow or for some reason like your husband more or they were friends with your husband before. Maybe they feel sorry for him because of the overall situation. Who knows till you talk to them. And it does not sound like you want to talk to them.
good luck
2007-01-08 07:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by gbdelta1954 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋