i dont know what to do. i feel like im stuck between a rock and a hard place. i cant exactly explain, but if you had to make a HARD choice, how would YOU make it. it may help me.
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CaRa
2007-01-08 07:07:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I first meditate. Clear your mind of other distractions because it will only make things harder. Choose one path in your head and see where it leads you. Based on the current situation, what do you forsee happening? Then choose a different way. Do the same thing. If you can't make a decision, consulting a couselor may be a good idea. They are a partial person without any emotion in the siutation. They may be able to point out some potential problems that you may not have seen able to see.
Good Luck.
2007-01-08 07:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had to make some very hard choices and I always chose a couple of different ways to do things. One way was that I decide about things is I listen to my heart. No matter how hard a choice is I listen to what my heart tells me and I follow that. Another way is I go with my instinct and how I feel about something. It may not always be tohe right or correct thing but I have discovered that between the two, if I truly listen, I am never steered wrong.
2007-01-08 15:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by ambr95012 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay this is crazy but you asked so I'll tell you my little game. I make out 2 slips (or more) with an answer on each. Then I make sure to mix them up equally. Finally I chose one. Take your time and feel the drama. Then I note the way I feel in my gut when I see which choice I picked, as though I had to stick to that choice no matter what. Whether I feel down or I feel relieved a little, I have my answer. You can play with your own head. Go ahead!! Everybody else does!!
2007-01-08 15:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u were literally stuck between a rock and a hard place ,U would want a sledge hammer, now you need to grasp that mental sledge hammer and go at it,unless U know some one who can assist you .
2007-01-08 15:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by hunter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I needed help, I would speak to a trusted adult who had the time and the HEART to listen. Possibly a teacher,guidance counselor,clergy.....parent or grandparent,uncel aunt....someone you trust and who has proven to be a good listener and also a person with good suggestions. I do wish you the very best.
Yahoo is fun, but is NOT the right place to seek important answers to important questions.
2007-01-08 18:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paper, scissors, stone?
2007-01-08 15:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consult God.
2007-01-08 15:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe make a +/- list?
good luck!
2007-01-08 15:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by smilingcat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cara.... dear... follow your head...
2007-01-08 15:10:46 · answer #9 · answered by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋