how far back? and does it prevent you from talking to the person?
2007-01-08 06:48:05 · 17 answers · asked by heaven-sin-t 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes. Always. My motto is not to go to bed angry, but to stay up and plot my revenge. **evil laugh**
2007-01-09 02:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah....almost 30 yrs. old and still have trouble not holding a grudge. Especially against my ex-boyfriends. I don't talk to anyone I have a grudge with. If it is a grudge than it is someting that couldn't be worked out and has made us no longer be friends. I am trying however to forgive people - the true root of any grudge - to forgive and forget or remember and relive it over and over.........decisions....decisions....
2007-01-08 14:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by shadows 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some grudges, yes. Other stupid ones that I was b*tchy that day, no I don't.
I've held some grudges from, like, 5 years ago. I do talk to the person, but I will never trust here again. But there's some from last week that I've completey forgot about. It completly depends on what it was about and who it was with.
2007-01-08 14:51:04 · answer #3 · answered by goldilocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will hold a grudge but not be actively mad at you...if that makes sense. When I am really mad it's like I have a hot fiery coal in my chest. As long as I don't have it I can be cordial to you but still hold my grudge. I'll hold them forever unless that person does or says something big to make me change my mind.
2007-01-08 15:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by Kier22_2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My grudges are normally only a few weeks long.. but if the bull doesn't stop, I can add old grudges to the new ones. Its a lot to keep track off, but it can be done.
2007-01-08 14:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by Tink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much the person's actions affected Dragon. Generally, Dragon tries not to hold grudges, cuz she doesn't see a point to it. But there are certain things that Dragon will NEVAR forgive.
2007-01-08 14:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by VLIGER DRAGÖN 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I try not to hold grudges, but I don't ever forget either. There are those I just don't like and try not to talk to, but it sure takes alot to get me to that point.
2007-01-08 14:50:58 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
never!!
my grudges last for like 2 weeks at most
2007-01-08 14:49:59 · answer #8 · answered by i_heart_thespillcanvas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes 9 years ago and yes it does prevent me from talking to the person(ex girlfriends are retards)
2007-01-08 14:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont like to but i do bring up a lot of things that made me upset in the past yes there are like 2 people i dont talk to because of that but most of the time i want to see if it can be resolved
2007-01-08 14:51:46 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have people that I still plan to kill some day... and I have been plotting for nearly thirty years in some cases...
2007-01-08 14:51:08 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋