I am, and it's quite hard to get rid of the feeling, if it happpens to you, how do you cope
2007-01-08 06:44:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes I'm quite jealousy of friends who do that. if a friend did that to me I'd still be friends with them but move on and look for new friends who will treat me like one of them
2007-01-08 06:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make me jealous. It just makes me mad and hurt. Especially when I know that I have been the better friend. I don't really say anything to my friend because I don't want them to know that it hurts me. If I do say anything, I say it in a kidding way like oh yeah, I see how you are. I see how you're gonna be. Sometimes though, we need to talk to other people or change things up a little because that's what keeps us all different and spicy. Don't look at it as a bad thing. In the end it will make you the better person you don't let yourself get jealous. If something happens like they go out and they don't ask you. Just let them know that you have other friends too. Then, make sure you call your other friends to go do things with them so you don't have time to think about what the others are doing to you. In other words use reverse physiology on them.
2007-01-08 15:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by airtightreality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh for me it is the other way round, the two of my best'est girlfriends dont get along with each other. The three of us are from the same school and i used to try all the time to get them give up their differences and get along and have fun( coz i so loved the few times we 3 would hang out together) but that never worked out and now i realised i am better off to let them be as they are and have fun with each of them as i love them both a lot.
As for your question, if you understand the person who is being nicer to mutual friends is not doing it on purpose and value her/him as a friend, the person will surely love you back just as much and remember you are a precious friend. Good Luck.
2007-01-08 14:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by GUESS GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first,yea,it sucks.But dont let it consume your thoughts.Ask yourselves(both of you) what does this friendship mean,what do I bring to the table,and would I miss it if it were to end? You'll get a better idea of the depth of your friendship and where the one sidedness comes from. Naturally, a little distance is created or a better connection is made. Good luck
2007-01-08 14:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by justsayin... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low self esteem
2007-01-08 14:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by sw312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you have to be confident in yourself. If they are being mean to you then they are not really your friends.
2007-01-08 14:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by Venezuela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋