Do you agree?
It seems that some women will marry a man just to have kids
And after she gets her big baby she forgets about their marriage
Most couples should weight 6 years before having kids
That is why people have no morals anymore ....Because they do not have parents who put each other first and who are madly in love.
If that was their example in life they would expect nothing less than their example of their parents beautiful marriage
Have you ever heard of children that were miserable because their parents were too happy and in love .............NEVER ....that IS WHY COUPLES SHOULD PUT EACH OTHER FIRST NO MATTER WHAT .....IT TEACHES YOUR OFF SPRING TOO EXPECT NO LESS IN A PARTNER .and they will make wiser choices in a partner.
2007-01-08 06:38:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree with you. I've been married a year and I've never wanted kids. I always wanted to marry a man I truly love and I did and do. Whether we have kids or not is not important to me at all. Definitely agree with everything you're saying!!!
2007-01-08 08:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does depend on how old you are when you get married. Most people are waiting much later in life to get married, sometimes well into their 30s. By then then the biological clock is ticking and if you want to have any kids at all you got to do it real quick. If you get married young, say 18 to early 20s, then by all means wait before having kids. Gives you time to have fun and get some of the immaturity out of the way.
2007-01-08 21:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by danikatspecial 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its instinctive to want babies because thats what women are made to produce, but if they marry just for the children then something is wrong. I cannot imagine marrying someone just to have babies with him. I married for love. The problem is not that so much, you see if the two main ingredients required for a successful marriage are missing, then it is doomed to failure. Those ingredients are Love and Respect. God commands men to love their wives and commands wives to respect their husbands.
If couples do that they will not only teach their children the right things by their example, but also have a terrific marriage. You see along with love and respect go accountability as well as integrity and dignity. Ultimately a mature, healthy relationship. If more people would just grow up and be accountable we would have a better world to live in!
2007-01-08 14:50:12 · answer #3 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think it's biology. Some women have an urge to have babies because it's embedded in their brains. (I know I do). When those urges take over there common sense, then they will take whoever they can get and work on the relationship later. There are many other reasons that people jump into marriage. I wish that more people realized what a serious commitment it is and don't take it so lightly.
2007-01-08 14:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by shallybles 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Was that a question or a comment??? TO each their own I guess, 6 years seems like a long time to wait after you are married.
2007-01-08 15:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by GrnEyedBandita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my!!!! good statement
But I do not agree. You are clearly passionate . My mother always complained that the romance of her parents left her feeling unwanted, unloved and in the way of what otherwise could have been one of the greatest romances of all time, but I have a feeling you have your mind made up.My grandparents stayed together till death did them part holding hands whispering sweet nothings to each other as he died and their daughter is divorcing husband no5 as I type this, so no. Two devoted people does not necessarily yield an emotionally successful child.
2007-01-08 14:47:23 · answer #6 · answered by Chillypepers 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
In a fantasy world your theory is great, here in the real world it just doesn't hold up. Most pregnancies are unplanned. Most marriages these days fail regardless of how long people wait to have kids. It sounds like your hurting and I'm sorry for that but blaming your parents won't make you feel any better.
Try to focus on the good things in your life, that's what will ultimately make you feel better.
2007-01-08 14:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I agree with you on some things, but I don't agree that we have to wait 6 years, I believe that if two people truly love each other and they want to have a baby, go for it when both are ready!
2007-01-08 14:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Every couple is different. Not EVERYONE needs to wait 6 years before having kids, that is redicilous! =/ It all depends on the couple.
2007-01-08 17:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by Kari R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a good lot of them, and when the kids leave the house the married is in trouble ( was in trouble way before that, but..) then they have NOTHING at all in common, well they do,, but the kids left and are on their own
2007-01-08 15:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋