Will American culture ruin Latin and Asian women?

Question

I’m a white guy but I’ve had a preference for Latin and Asian women for the longest time, they are not only the most beautiful women but most importantly still very feminine. You don’t really see that much in America anymore except with Latin and Asian women, Latin and Asian women generally speaking never cut their hair as short as a boy like you would see in most American women, they still wear dresses, they don’t talk like a foul mouth truck drivers, they’re respectful, responsible, and usually very loyal. The only problem I see is American culture undermining Latin and Asian women’s wonderful qualities and slowly eroding these qualities by brainwashing them with materialistic or insane feminist views. I hope this never happens though, most men like Latin and Asian women cause they are different from most American women and have these wonderful qualities that you don’t see often in other women. If Latin and Asian women change then men have nowhere to go to get away from our women.

Answer 1

so full of shallow stereotypes.
try a blow up doll, i hear they're really passive.

Answer 2

Kind of a narrow view isn't it? I've been to both places and have met women from these areas in their native lands. A lot different than American women regardless of ethnicity..... Some Asian/ Central American women are so oppressed that they are very easily manipulated by anyone of Western standards. This is a far worse brainwashing than any American culture could POSSIBLY do to them..... Never really noticed that among Latin women (Spain/ Portugal/ Italy/ South America)....

Answer 3

My father married a "Mail-Order Bride" from Asia. Poor dude, he was clueless on what marriage is. I love my daddy with my whole heart. I ponder why a man so brilliant (high IQ) could be so stupid in love.

His hopes was to get a "Maid". Certainly, on the surface, these cultures wear the mask very well. Underneath, we find the stingent mid-evil family structure: wife dominates house, money, and affairs. Again, many fantisise about these. However, like my dad, they pick their mate unwisely (based on looks, and fantacy wishes).

Well, when my step-mom arrived, it wasn't anything like he experienced in her home country. She went from sweet to dominate and controlling. Weight gain major, getting with others from her culture and laughing at male genital sizes, and she took over 1/2 in the divorce.

Yes, it was Americanization on steriroids. In fact, I've never seen American women as aggressive (real life or movies). This was repeated in the circle she was in. I guess any reasonable person could see this train wreck from solar systems away --- older middle age man marrying young forien woman --- but it sucks when you're the little kid caught in it all. Still recovering in many ways, but, I did get a great sister out of the fiasco that I bore witness too; and that is a blessing from the concequence of stupidity.

Sadly, I am seeing (on tv) many stories about such relationships ending in murder because of stupidity.

Love and marriage is a cost. Money is NOT the price to pay, but rather in the giving of yourself. Certainly, if you're willing to give someone everything and then some, you're on the right track.

Answer 4

I think that Latin and Asian women living in the United States will continue to Americanize. That is only because this is were we leave.

I think that Latin and Asian women are the way they are because of our strong values towards family and friendship.

But basically you can find any type of person in any kind of culture.

Keep going for the Latin women, not only we are feminine, caring, loyal, but we are also passionate about our family and our loved one.

Answer 5

Not necessarily. If you look at Germany and the turkish imigrants, its the modern turkish men who are very open to germanhood (German cars promiscuity living the good life party), while a good portion of the women want to keep their veil and clinch to their "opressing" tradition. The misery "liberated powerwomen" live in will put most off and maybe a lot of white women will follow, when they realize that most women who got divorced did not get happy despite all the money and assets they got. Also at a certain point men will stop getting married if they look back in their family history and have one divorced realtive after another living miserabel lives on minimum money, at which point it will become more important for a girl to be deemed marriage material weather or not her mommy put dead through divorce and grabbed his money, giving women even more incentives not to divorce, the marriagibility of their daughter if marriage will still be deemed important at that time. Men are dropping out of marriage, women might follow.

Answer 6

Living in southern california, I know a lot of asian and latin women and consider them friends. True, their traditions and culture are different than mine and I respect that. I do not however see them as more feminine or weaker. They are strong intelligent and beautiful, just like American women from other ethnic backgrounds.

American women come from all backgrounds including asian and latino. I think that is what is most wonderful about our American culture. We are truly a melting pot.

I think the fear you are articulating is slightly different than your words indicate. I could be wrong. But, I think you are speaking of keeping first generation women from knowing their rights and their equalities in school and the workplace. If this is truly your fear, then yes abosultely without question American culture will teach these women that yes they are valued for their academics, yes they can do and be anyone they want to be (including your boss) and yes her opinion on matters absolutely matters. I think you are confused on feminity and the definition. Woman are strong in all cultures.

I don't think you should refer to American women as "our women". I personally find it offensive.

Answer 7

Dude I totally agree with you, not only do they posses all the qualities you've just mention but Asian and Latin women have the best quality type of bodies. when it comes to having curves and hips white women can not compete with that. The only other competition they have is black women only when it comes to voluptuous bodies. It truly is sad to see beautiful women of that caliber be brainwashed by all that hype...I my self only date asian,latin and black women...and even mixed women only if they have these qualities......

Answer 8

I would think that asian and latin women living in the USA will be effected by the culture

if you really want a servile woman who will obey you and not talk back etc etc, then I think your best bet is to go somewhere in asia or latin america that is very remote.
you do not want any internet access and very little television.

maybe you can convince her the year is 1840

I dont know why you want a wife at all since you want one who is totally subservient to you....maybe getting a dog will not do because you are too lazy to cook and clean after yourself.

Answer 9

I feel sorry for you!!!To have such a fragile feeling about your masculinity. Why do you think women that downplay their rights and opinions are any more feminine than women who assert their rights. If one takes part of your description, "respectful, and usually "very loyal" a dog could fulfill your needs. if you look at women like Cleopatra and Lucretia Borgia, they manipulated men to get what they want. Women who appear to be subservient, are sometimes manipulating the show. They have taken mens' ego's and figured out how to get what they want, behind your back. So for everyone's mental health you should get help with your lack of self-esteem, not worry about Asian or Latin women

Answer 10

So sad to believe in stereo types. Do you live in a very isolated area? All women are wonderful and until you learn that your lessons will be hard. Be careful for what you wish for;Su Ling just might take you to the cleaners in all her soft demure wonder. Are there any men left? No. We killed them.

Answer 11

Wow, this is really compicated. I am half Asian and Mexican and speak spanish and tagalog. I love my coulture and the food and traditions we provide. All my life I only knew Asian and Mexican traditions, but i think its all related to how you want to act and be. Like I never restore myself to cussing, because it's ignorant. If it's how most people want to live it's their choice. Latin and Asian women sometimes think to be American is to be great.