What does it mean when someone says they are confused on whether they want to be with you or not again? I am a lesbian and my ex gf whom is also bipolar tells me this. She says she is not into anyone else. But says she is confused about me. What does that mean? Please only serious answers...no funny or rude comments. Thank you!
2007-01-08 06:30:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am straight, but, about a year before my husband and I got married I pretty much did the same to him..
There was noone else, but I had trust issues and felt like I knew I could trust him but I refused to try. So, I asked myself if it was him, or was I scared that I couldn't trust myself. When I realized I was afraid of hurting him, and not him hurting me, we were able to work it all out.
Good luck.
2007-01-08 06:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by jenchell1994 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say she is trying to be nice and tell you she's not sure any more how she feels about you anymore. Sounds like her feelings have changed, and she needs to think about if she really wants to stay with you or not. It doesn't really have to be your fault, it could just be her going a different direction in her life. I would give her the space she needs, but do let her know how much you still care. If it's meant to be-it will. If not, there is someone out there especially for you, you just haven't meet them yet!
2007-01-08 14:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best bet for you would be not to listen to her until she is 100% sure that she wants to be with you. If you all get together and there is any doubt in her mind and she ends up breaking it off it could really hurt you and you don't want that. Give her sometime to think (without your influence or you being around her) with a clear mind, when she's 100% sure of what she wants then you can move forward from there.
2007-01-08 14:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by shallybles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is in your question....sorry...but you did say she's bi-polar......................wishes to play both spectrums...yet you but one.......makes it confusing alright....good luck!
2007-01-08 14:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by yahoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEA SHE IS ( BI ) TO ME THAT IS CONFUSING STICK TO LESBIAN ONLY THEN THERE WILL BE NO CONFUSION GOOD LUCK
2007-01-08 14:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by John de B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly that, she is confused. give her time
2007-01-08 14:32:49 · answer #6 · answered by manson1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋