i just gave the boot to two roomates of my - best friends. it was a dirty ordeal to say the least. although, i am not mad at either of them just dissapointed. would it be wrong to eventually talk with either of them again, would it make me look week, pathetic? or should i just forgett about them and move on with life? grrrrrr.
2007-01-08 06:20:25 · 8 answers · asked by bananananana 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think talking to them makes you week. I don't Know what they did to disappoint you but regardless I think it is a Noble and compassionate mature thing to do. If they don't except your compassion, well then you did the noble thing to do and forget about them and like you said move on. PS You are a wise good person.
2007-01-08 06:32:15 · answer #1 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would really depend on the 'why' and how things go from here.
If you couldn't have them as roommates but aren't mad, I don't see why eventually talking to them again would make you seem week. We can love people in our lives - family, best friends - and not be able to live with them for extended periods of time. Love my sis and would do anything for her. But we both know that anymore than 5-7 days together, we need to get away from each other.
Work through your feeling and emotions since this sounds recent and see what your heart & head tell you. Women do have an advantage of our 'gut' feelings that can provide us with answers when we stop long enough to listen.
2007-01-08 14:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Margaret K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eventually if you still want to be friends with them i dont see why that would make you look weak, you would seem like the bigger person in my opinion. but i dont know what happened with the situation. for now i would move on though and see how you feel when the time comes, and it will come you dont have to force it or hurry it up, you will know
2007-01-08 14:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by Jules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best revenge is living a good life. Like John Lennon said "Life HApeens when your too busy doing other things". Good Luck
2007-01-08 14:23:25 · answer #4 · answered by thehand2020 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never burn your bridges. You never know when you have to cross them again. Not knowing the circumstances I'd say forgive and forget (over time that is)
2007-01-08 14:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by demozast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now I would just move on...Maybe in the future you guys should try talking again.
2007-01-08 14:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put them on the back burner and move on.. get more friends ...
2007-01-08 14:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by bowpeep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg u need to forgive and forget...good friends r hard to find these days...
2007-01-08 14:23:50 · answer #8 · answered by Tina C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋