Does my sister have the right to blackmail me?

Question

I am 16 years old and I got busted my my 18 year old sister when she walked in on me masturbating nude in the family room. I thought no one else is at home. Well, if that wasnt bad enough, I had a letter I wrote while I was doing my duty and she grabbed it real quick. It was a rather humilating letter about a sexual fantasy about tennis star Maria Sharapova. It was about watching her play tennis with a skirt and no panties on and how I was getting aroused looking at her beautiful white butt. It gets worse from there. My sister is threatening to blackmail me. What do I do?

Answer 1

Let her tell. It's perfectly normal and unless you are Mormon, I think your parents will get over it.

Answer 2

Well having had a few embarrassing incidents myself I can say that you should be embarrassed but not overly upset.Yuo 16 doing something all guys do. As for the nude in the family room part, I personally would just to the bathroom or bedroom. and LOCK THE DOOR.

Any sexual fantasies you actually admit to any form should be treated like a sex tape....locked up in fort knox.

However I don't see why you would be ashamed of having a thing for maria sharapova.I mean when those pics of britney spears with no panties surfaced YOU KNOW there were/are guys spanking it off to them.

Now I don't know WHY your sister would want to blackmail you. But then maybe she really gets off on doing crap like that to people. Maybe she prefers making people in her family miserable instead of being a REAL sister.

Being your older sister she should be watching out for you instead of make your life hell (that's what older brothers are for)

If she was a REAL sister this incident would be embarrassing at most.

But the question is how would your parents take it? I mean dad would probably understand this a lot better than mom (being a guy like you)

Maybe you should tell your parents (or parent...like dad) yourself and beat her to the punch. I know this is an embarassing situation but it would at very least take most of the wind out of her sails. Maybe just leave a few details out when you do tell.

Answer 3

You didn't do anything wrong. I mean it's gross to hear about but it's perfectly normal. Tell your sister that she can't blackmail you, because you really don't care. I mean, most parents know that it's normal for boys to do that, however, they just don't want to hear about it. So, more than likely they would just tell your sister to 'shut up and mind her own business'. She's just messing with you anyway.

I know you're embarrassed but you will get over it. Just be more careful where you do your thing from now on. Also, I wouldn't write down my fantasies so that others can find them.

So, you have a thing for Maria Sharapova, huh? That's funny! And you're sister is being a jerk!

Answer 4

It sounds like what happen in the movie American pie- The naked mile. Just good thing your grandma did not walk through that door or you would be at a funeral right now. Just keep in mind that masturbating is normal for a young man however, you could have kept it in your room instead of bringing it out into the family room where anyone could just walk in.

Answer 5

Sorry for the delay in responding, but I had to stop laughing long enough to actually be able to type.

Oh, the horrors of puberty and stupidity.

The first bit of advice would be to not whack it in the family room anymore.

The next bit of advice would be to not whack it at all.

You probably shouldn't be whacking it and writing fantasy letters to tennis divas either.

As far as your sister is concerned, you have two choices. First, you can agree to the blackmail (depending on what it is) and have her keep your little secret safe (though she probably won't anyways). Your other option is to "come clean" (pun intended) and admit what you did and then roll on her for trying to blackmail you.

Answer 6

the perfect component you may do is be mature about it and merely tell your relatives. You were mature sufficient to attempt pot, be responsible, and tell your relatives. Your sister is behaving very immaturely. If something she must be talking to you about it and being a mentor. Be honest and tell your relatives, this is going to tear them aside even extra to do not ignore that you lied. in case you've realized your lesson about smoking pot(i wish you've), tell them. enable them see that you're responsible, understand you probably did something stupid, realized from it and could not do it lower back. Be a gentle woman of integrity and ascertain you in no way do it lower back. you'll experience so a lot extra effective and at the same time it's going to close your sister up. i wish this allows.

Answer 7

Oh please your only human young males and older males are for ever masturbating, it's a part of human nature and sometimes aperson can not control themselves, hopefully your parents feel the same as i do but if they dont to be honest i will make up a huge lie about her just so we can both be in the hot seat. or if that does not work and she does decide to tell on you i would tell on every little thing she does from that point on i mean everthing

Answer 8

This is private stuff and if your parents have brought you and your sister up right, she might be the one to be punished when she tells your parents about tletter and stuff. Sje is the one who is really misbehaving. Tell your parents about her blackmailing stuff, i am sure they will be angry at her instead of you.

Answer 9

lol ok
in the living room you are crazy
there's no "right" or right
she will blackmail you, this isnt' a question of moral or she has the right to do it
basically you got caught and she can do what she wants

Answer 10

who is she going to blackmail you against?
you are allowed to masturbate...although most people do it in the privacy of their bedroom.
you are allowed to have fantasies. let her do whatever she wants. it will only be humiliating for a few minutes.