How do I make myself feel pretty? How do I be pretty? Why can't I be popular? When will I get my chance?

Question

I'm sick of always feeling ugly and wishing I was somebody else. I want to be popular and pretty (not in a snobby way). I'm sick of feeling alone and emo. I hate the way Iook and I hate who I am. Someone help?

Answer 1

You really shouldnt feel like this, snap out of it as soon as possible or you'll keep going on a downward spiral and end up become horifically depressed.
It sounds cliched and stupid, but it truly isn't whats on the outside that counts. Not many people are utter stunners (myslelf included) so we all need to make up for it with our personality. If you can be happy and upbeat and be yourself, there will be people out there who love that quailty! There must be something of yourself that you like, so flaunt it! Popularity is all about how people percieve you, so dont be bitchy or nasty (i'm not saying that you are, i'm just saying dont do it). just be kind and considerate, and maybe you could try and make new friends and meet new people. And dont be emo. I dont want to be stereotypical but the average person thinks that emo's are just attention seekers, i dont feel that way but many people do and it doesnt work in your favour.

Answer 2

No one is ugly.
You still haven't discovered the beauty within you !
fIRST STOP WORRYING ABOUT THIS OUTER LOOKS.
TRY CULTIVATING THE INNER BEAUTY.

Read this poem please.

For a moment or perhaps a long while,
we are dropped into the depths of despair,
a tragedy of intense proportions. In the darkness we struggle with difficult and often confusing feelings.
As Christians we often feel guilty about these feelings. All are true human emotions, and necessary in enabling us to cope.

GOD UNDERSTANDS OUR PAIN AND OUR SUFFERING.
HE WILL WRAP HIS LOVING ARMS AROUND US,
HE WILL BE THERE WHEN NO ONE ELSE CAN .

After a time we begin to feel his presence.
You can see a faint light in the distance.

This is the light of HOPE.

Moving toward the light -The Holy Spirit takes us by the hand and helps us to move even closer to the light. The light of the Lord that shines into each of our lives.
Here in The Lords loving presence our souls and our wounds begin to heal.
God has a plan for us and we can rest assured that we have been called here for a purpose. Our job is not yet finished.
We must continue to move forward.

We might not understand the sequence of events in our lives. We might not understand the meaning of our suffering. But we have not lost everything , we are not alone.

We will always have HOPE.

Let us remember that Hope was born at Christmas,
His name is JESUS .

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Answer 3

sounds like your going thru the awkward teenage years... wait a few years... graduate... change what you don't like about yourself into something you do like about yourself... you will get a whole new circle of friends..... you can become more popular than ever... you will be surprised at the amount of those who were popular in high school are the way you are feeling right now..... don't be discouraged your day will come

Answer 4

Do you watch much television? Throw your television out the window. Don't read glamour magazines either, they're not Real.

Once you begin to see everybody as human beings, the distinction between "pretty" and "ugly" will fade.

Answer 5

If you want to not feel emo stop being emo.

Being pretty won't make you feel better.

Answer 6

turn into a prep, use makeup and such quit being emo and exercise you will be hot/popular but it's not like you always thought it was.

Answer 7

put on makeup, makeup does wonders, when i have on makeup i am not as shy as when i dont have any on at all because i feel good.