My parents recently split up andmy mother lives in a different state. They arent divorced but they dont live together. They still talk and everything but my mom never wants to live back in the state where i am. I am 15 and live in NY. The problem is that i am going away for a weekend for a model UN trip and i dont want to my dad is forcing me too. But i found out today that when i go, he is gonan go to my mom to see her for a weekend in FL. i am mad cause i want to see ehr too and i get to see her maybe once every two months and i miss her even though what she did was wrong by leaving us i stil miss her and my normal life. i am pisssed now at my dad because he us going to see her and i cant but he is calling it a fact finding mission to go down there and still see waht is up and if they are ever gonan be together. I think it is BS and plus if i talk to my motehr i cant tell her taht i know. He then tells me that i cant be upset or cry about the whole thing. A minute ago he just called
2007-01-08 05:53:47 · 3 answers · asked by chaoschilled 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and asked me if i love him more tyhen my mother and i told him that idk and he hung up on me.
I am confused and dont know what to do. Please help
2007-01-08 05:54:42 · update #1
You will never be able to understand your parents. They will always see you as a child. I know it is upsetting for you, but you need to let them work things out the best they can and you need to be supportive. It seems your dad should understand YOUR feelings though because she is your mom and you miss her. It may be hard, but maybe you should apologize to your father and explain to him your feelings. Maybe something else can be worked out to make everyone happy.
2007-01-08 05:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by Tink 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right now they are apart trying to see if they should be together or not. I know it is confusing to you, but you need to be understanding of the situation for now and let them have the weekend alone to try and talk things out. They may end up getting back together and if they don't, at least maybe they will be civil to each other and be friendly about it. I know this is hard on you and it hurts you right now. You have to realize that they don't want to hurt you in this but they have to decide what is best for all of you in the long run. Go on your trip for the weekend and let them be together. Then maybe you could go see your Mom. I hope things will work out for you. Good luck and hang in there...things will get better.
2007-01-08 14:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooh, what a sad situation. You parents are very selfish and are not thinking of your well being. Your father is definitely manipulative. The only thing I can suggest is that you talk to a counselor and see what they come up with...maybe someone can talk to your parents? Be strong!
2007-01-08 13:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋