i am a 20 year old male and i really want to get a massage but i fear being more tense when i leave then when i enter...because i think maybe i will get an erection...and i would not be able to hide it any advice? has anyone else gotten one and what was the reaction? any massuse's ever had this happen?
2007-01-08 05:37:14 · 15 answers · asked by you_can_call_me_p 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
LOL @ you guys answers.......a male massuese is NOT an option
2007-01-08 05:44:55 · update #1
Why not choose a male massage therapist? Treat this like going to the doctor or a chirpractor etc. This person is a professional and has gone through a couple years of training and is licensed by the state he practices in. If you treat and think of the massage therapist as a professional you should not have any problems with an erection. If you think of it as anything less that a professional visit that is when you get into trouble.
2007-01-08 05:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been through a few couple's massages with my girlfriend. I thought the same thing my first time. The reality though isn't as hard as you think (pun not intended)
1- For most of the massage you are facedown. This will give you a chance to get used to it.
2- Just truly enjoy it.If you do, you will find you really do relax and don't even think about erections.
2007-01-08 06:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by cmoke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get you a massage. I am about your age and have had many. they are wonderful. I also get a hard on and I have also had a womam massuse to put oil on it and release the pressure. Man this does feel good. Go for it. Email me if you need more info.
2007-01-08 06:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your concerns are definitely normal. I put a link below that talks about "What to Expect" when you get a massage.
Also there are some massage modes that are used in which you can be clothed. Some modes are Thai, Body Mobilization Therapy, etc.
So no worries, ok? You can enjoy it knowing that it's also benefitting your health.
2007-01-09 06:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by MJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very normal to have erection during the massage,because it help to increase blood circulation which make the erection, most of masseuse know that and can handle with this case, don't worry man, all female masseuse are professional enough to deal with that.
go ahead enjoy the massage
2007-01-08 23:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had many - and one once in a while get aroused, even then it is short lived and for some reason not at all embarassing....you are just too relaxed to really worry about it too much.
However I will say I prefer a male - they have stronger, larger hands and I enjoy it more.
2007-01-08 07:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that is exactly what happened to me a number of years ago. I was on my back for most of the time but weh I flipped over the towel could not hide my erection. I simply apoligized. She told she sees it all the time and I shouldn't worry about it.
2007-01-08 06:21:27 · answer #7 · answered by Aaron S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most professionals will respect your privacy. You usually have a sheet on you and you can conceal it that way. It is perfectly natural for men to get a erection when they are totally relaxed. Get your massage and enjoy it.
2007-01-08 06:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by Justin C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's certain that you will get an erection; especially when she does the back of your legs near your thighs. This is normal. They are professional, & know this may happen. Try to think of non-sexual things, and remember...what goes up must come down.
2007-01-08 06:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are that excitable, perhaps you should consider the reason why you want to get a massage. Perhaps you need the other type of massage parlors.
Good Luck!
2007-01-08 05:51:43 · answer #10 · answered by Pabs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋