alright so my ex bf cheated on me before, we broke up, i erased him from my life, and then a couple months later he wants to get bak with me...im a gullable and forgiving person, so we got bak together for a few weeks, and then i realized that he still had another girlfriend...i told her we were together and she didnt believe me, and he chooses her over me...im lost...why wud he want to get bak with me if he just wud treat me the same way again?...he ignores my calls AGAIN and i have to completely erased him again out of my life, i changed my number and everything...will he come bak? or does he just like to **** with me? and i also dont understand why he wud try soooo hard calling ALL my friends and EVEN MY MOM, to get a hold of me cuz i changed my number before and everything, just so he can do this to me all over again. but i changed my number again FOR GOOD this time. i just dont know why he wud treat someone like this...
2007-01-08 05:30:40 · 2 answers · asked by Tina C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He sounds like he doesnt know what he wants and you are better off without him in your life. If he didnt treat you well and respect you as a person you should say good bye to him for good and tell him to kiss you ***. Dont go over all the thoughts of why it didnt work out. It wasnt your fault he was an idiot so dont blame yourself for his insecurities. Live your life the way you want to and he will get what he deserves someday. Karma Baby Karma
2007-01-08 05:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? It's a game kinda. In the nicest way, he sees you as easy to get, and when he's bored or needing whatever it is he gets from you he finds you. He knows you don't require him to give all the tough stuff, like honesty, commitment, or proof that he is being genuine.
I know it can be hurtful when someone abuses your niceness, but you have to be the one to stop him. You know what he is all about and if you don't really want that for yourself then don't do it.
And yes, he came around again to just do this all over again (because he can); and yes, he will probably come around again.
2007-01-08 14:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋