i was 17 and i got pregnant by a 28 year old man he pressured me into having an abortion so i did he paid for it and everything but i havent' talk to him since which is great i guess...but i am now 18 and i have a new bf and he is great but i think i am pregnant again i havent' started my period or anything and he gets off in me sometimes i have no method of birth control... am i more fertile now than i ever been? Can i get pregnant faster and easier?
Please help me i need some answers
2007-01-08 05:07:59 · 32 answers · asked by Tiff 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
There is no reason why you couldn't be pregnant. Not using birth control or any protection against disease with him ejaculating in you...yeah I'd get a pregnancy test if I were you. If you're not pregnant this time...be thankful and protect yourself.
2007-01-08 05:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by NYGirl 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Girl... do you ever learn out of your mistakes???
First: If you have unprotected sexual intercourse it´s very likely that you´ll get pregnant...
Secondly: There is no proof that women after an abortion are more fertile than before
Third: You can catch many diseases by having sexual intercourse without using condoms, the worst of all: AIDS.
You should learn to protect and respect a little bit more your own life: What´ll you do if your pregnant again?? Abort one more time??
What do you think will happen to you in the future if you catch Aids??
Do you want to ruin your whole life?
You think that you are old enough to have sex... but it seems, that you are really not old enough to assume any responsibility.
Protect yourself and others!! Do you think that you would probably transmit Aids to your child when giving birth and also to future sexual partners...
2007-01-09 01:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be pregnant, but you normally aren't more fertile after an abortion or miscarriage. Take a test and if you aren't then you need to think about birth control and you need to talk to your boyfriend about birth control also. You are too young to get pregnant and you have your whole life ahead of you. Try to stay focused on what you want and where you want to get in life that way you don't have any regrets and you can give your kids the type of life that you want to give them.
2007-01-08 05:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by Chrissi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not trying to preach to you but it seems like you would have learned a lesson from the first time. I understand that people make mistakes but not the same one over and over. Yes, there is a good chance you are pregnant especially if you aren't on birth control. I don't know about you getting pregnant faster and easier but at your age it is easier to get pregnant than someone who is older (over 30). You really need to be on birth control if you plan on having unprotected sex. Good luck with everything!! Please consider birth control if you are not pregnant!!
2007-01-08 05:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by Renee25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unprotected sex = chance of pregnancy. It doesn't matter that you had an abortion before. What matters is that you are having unprotected sex now. Get a test, and then go from there. That's the only way you are going to know if you are pregnant. Start using protection and then you won't have to worry about being pregnant.
2007-01-08 05:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by zoe and skylar's mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 18, by now you NEED TO KNOW, that if a man,"gets off" in you, then his semen are already that much closer to your unfertile egg...
Even if he were to,"pull out", just before, most men have pre-***, and it is just as good as the real thing as far as getting pregnant goes.
You really need to be more careful; and if you have an older brother, have him kick the crap out of the 27 yr. old for raping you, as that is basically what it sounds like he did.
So, yes...you are probably pregnant.
Get checked out?
I guess, if you have a physician, or go to a "PLANNED PARENTHOOD".
Read those words right there...PLANNED PARENTHOOD...
You can't "NOT afford BIRTHCONTROL".
Atlest something.
Babies cost Thousands of dollars.
I will say no more.
Make good choices girl, do not let men push you into something that is JUST TO GET THEM OFF, Cause in the long run, They just RUN OFF, good man or not, NO OFFENSE, and you get stuck RAISING A CHILD ALONE, on WELFARE.
BE SAFE.
DJ
2007-01-08 05:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by gemseeker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let me say that I am sorry that you have had to experience going through abortions at such a young age. You don't realize it now, but you will later how that will impact your life.
I would encourage you to go to the Planned Parenthood clinic in your area to receive free birth control. They will provide it to you at no cost and you don't need your parents permission. PLEASE DO THIS NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Now to your question. Of course you could be pregnant if you are not using any form of birth control and you're allowing your BF to "get off" inside of you, as you stated. You are damaging your mind, body and soul by subjecting yourself to using abortions as a form of birth control - WHERE THE HELL ARE YOUR PARENTS?
2007-01-08 05:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Condom!!!! there cheap ...
Not that I advocte Pre Marital Sex!!!
Yes You Can Get pregnant Again .. Some folks are More fertile than others LOL i used to say My Auntie all you had to do was look at her she would be Preggers....
If the Guy says He dosent Like To Use a Condom Then well he isnt respecting you.. Not worth the lay!!!!! DUMP HIM........ He is retarded!!!! And Not a Man!
2007-01-08 05:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by cookiemonster5150@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, why are you with a 26 year old man? Don't you have enough to do with chasing a two-year-old son around? Can you AFFORD to believe any man who tells you he can't have children? Why in the world have you stopped taking your birth control? I would bet that you are pregnant. Why don't you get smart and change your life for the better---for you and your son?
2016-05-23 11:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure
Get pregnant soon
other wise ur bf will get pregnant
by the way by simple maths
he shud be 34 yrs
( do some algebra if u like)
and yes dont forget
to @/*+ a lot
so that before u get 19
u shift to a older man like me...
happy mating u realy are made for it
In sanskrit ' nari eva bhogya'
2007-01-08 05:19:07 · answer #10 · answered by poke_a_man 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋