2007-01-08 04:43:55 · 13 answers · asked by maria p 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Define "talking to". If this is someone that he's never talked to before, or that he's just met, I'd be concerned.
I'd tell him that it makes you uncomfortable, and that you'd appreciate it if he didn't talk to her while you're pregnant. If he can't respect your wishes, you should let him go be with her, because regardless of what he SAYS, that's what he wants.
2007-01-08 04:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if in your heart you trust him, then you do just that and do not worry about everyone else's opinion. It is normal to be a little insecure while you are pregnant, but if it is really bothering you, ask him what the deal is, and if he respects your mind. If he is the right guy doing the right thing, then he will respect that you don't want him being friends with anyone else at this point in your relationship. If not, then he most likely is doing other things, and it would be your choice to stick around.
Follow your heart and the God given gift of Woman's Intuition...
GOOD LUCK, BABY.
2007-01-08 04:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by Ladee_N_Texas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very difficult situation for many reasons. The first being that when we (women) are pregnant, we can overreact to many things that seem so big to us at that moment but later doesn't seem as huge at all. BUT it all depends also on the situation of how he was talking to her and what he was saying. Questions you might want to ask yourself before getting into an unnessesary arguement is, has he been unfaithful before? Has he given you anything else other than this one situation that tells you he's being unfaithful? Only you know him well enough to make that assumption of whether he's straying or not. Good luck and I hope all goes well for you and your little one.
2007-01-08 04:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 08:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont freak out, it doesnt mean he is cheating on you. He could just be friends with the girl. Have him talk about his friendship with this girl so you can trust him better. If you knew what was going on it will make you feel more comfortable. Plus, you dont need this stress on your body right now.
2007-01-08 04:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you believe him? my boyfriend lives in a different city and we're expecting our second daughter together and i've been down this road many a time. when our first daughter was 2 weeks old i found out his chick on this side had a miscarriage. then she got pregnant again october 2005 and had an abortion. now she plays phone games thinking shes going to stress me out with her madness. you've got to let him know that you're not having that. you gotta put your foot down. how i got my man in line was easy i started ignoring him. dropping off our daughter at my mom's house letting him pick her up from there instead of coming to my house. took my house key and just let him do whatever he wanted.eventually he saw the light and realized that he wanted to be a family man and we're expecting our second daughter. if you don't trust him don't be with him. you're only going to stress yourself out.
2007-01-08 04:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by *~*Jon-Jon's Mommy!!*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if there was something you were suspicious about, then just be careful. Talking to another girl isn't always so bad. But if his priorities aren't you and your baby, then I'd start to wonder what is going on.
2007-01-08 04:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by lovingmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you just a little to consious? Because its not like he's going to just fall in love with every girl he talks to but you can try and look out for the signs that he might like her.
2007-01-08 04:49:33 · answer #8 · answered by notoriousteen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I feel for you because that is not really the case. That is why we tell young people to wait and have kids when they are married.
Best of luck to you with your baby..But don't trust him. If he knows it bothers you and continues to talk to this girl..Then he doesn't really care about you or your feeling.
momof4
2007-01-08 04:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by mary3127 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesnt seem like a friend, especially when it is a man's favorite thing to do is to leave a women when she is pregnant.
2007-01-08 04:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋