I just met her on New Yrs. Never really liked her before because of the things she did to my girlfriend when they were 2gether in 2004 & she never liked the fact that we are now together & crazy in love. BUT, now she's acting all friendly, telling my girl that she really likes me and blah blah blah. Should i trust her? Mind you that in late 2005, she did try to "steal" my girl away from me. Didnt work, needless to say. I know my girlfriend would still like to maintain a friendshp with her (they've been bestfrenz for yrs), but i dont know if i should comfortable or not.
2007-01-08 04:25:10 · 8 answers · asked by Raynebow_Diva 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The relationship is between your girlfriend and you. A third in the relationship does NOT work honey. Talk to your girlfriend and let her know how you feel about this ex of hers. Communication is the best key to solve any issues, whatever they may be. Sometimes we have to give up things, in order to improve or maintain our current relationship. Also the type of person that does not respect a relationship, is not a person to trust. Just get away from her EX, she is not worth it. She will bring you more problems with your girlfriend. DON'T TRUST HER EX AT ALL.
2007-01-08 04:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by Chubby Abe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do I smell Dyke Drama?????
Seriously...
If this person was trying to steal your girl a few months ago and is being friendly now, you have reason to be suspicious of her reasons.
If your GF wants to maintain a friendship with the ex, it is not your place to determine whether she may or may not. That is up to her. You can only decide whether or not you are willing to continue the relationship knowing that she is friends with a woman that you don't trust.
It boils down to this... Do you trust your girlfriend? If you do, then the friendship doesn't matter so much. If you don't then the issue isn't the ex.
2007-01-08 05:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by knightofsappho 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the way she is acting is contrary to the behavior she usually shows, so the possibility exists that she is playing some sort of head game, which is pretty lame. A sore loser, perhaps.
If it were me, I would limit my contact with her. Be polite but don't share any personal stuff with her, cause she might use it to get between you two. Just because someone asks you a personal question doesn't obligate you to answer it. Enjoy that. If she asks you something you don't want to answer, just don't say a word, then perhaps change the subject. It's kind of fun to enjoy your right not to say anything.
Keep your distance.
2007-01-08 04:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by JB 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You cannot decide your GF's friends for her. But, the whole thing sounds very dodgy and I'd be careful. The ex sounds like trouble despite the sudden Little Mary Sunshine act she's putting on. You'll just have to trust that your GF knows how to handle the cow.
2007-01-08 05:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by castle h 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me explain something, I got home one day and my x told me he didn't feel the same way for me anymore, after talking to him I thought the best thing would be for me to leave the apartment an hr later he hooked up with my best friend, I sat down with them both and express to them that I care for them both no matter what one was the love of my life and the other my best friend..I talk to them for a while trying to keep a friendship not because I want my X back but because they were both part of my life....they slowly start to be little me in ever form and manner and thought it for the best to stop talking to them. I would just go with your feeling if this person has crossed you once it may so happen again but I know how you feel............trust me!
2007-01-08 04:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it. In order words don't pursue it or prevent it. If Her intentions are false your girlfriend will figure it out. If not then the 2 of you have a new friend.
2007-01-08 05:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think I would not trust her because look at her past.
she might be hideing some thing from you, and I wouldent wont to see you get hurt... (I WOULD HAVE TO COME WHERE YOU LIVE AND KICK HER @ss) just joking....
this is a though one..
2007-01-08 05:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont trust her and be wary (keep your guard up)
2007-01-08 04:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by jason s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋