How do i ease the pain of rejection,,when you fall in love with someone who doesn't love you?

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SO MANY GREAT ANSWERS ,,THANKS GUYS

Answer 1

Recognize that what you are feeling is hurt and turn the focus toward yourself. What are things that you like to do? Are there particular places that make you feel good? Go there. Do things that give you pleasure.

Find a confidante that you can talk to (be it a friend, a therapist, whatever). Spill it all, everything, say any and everything. Get those thoughts and words out into the universe so that they can dissipate.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Just know that life is full of pain... I guess thats why the reward in the end is so great... Everything happens for a reason and there will be woman in your life that will make you happy and love you in all the ways you need to be loved...Do not look at the situation as you being "rejected"...It just wasn't meant to be and Trust Me, its probaly a blessing in disguise!

Answer 3

You don't. The pain of rejection is part life. You need to experience it because without knowing it you will not be a complete person. It's not wrong to feel the way you do with what has happened.

Answer 4

I am so sorry mate. It's hard I know, and nothing I can say will actually lessen the pain you are feeling now, but it will pass.

I found this somewhere:

You realize that not being loved in return doesn't diminish/invalidate the love that YOU felt. Then you tuck that love away in a corner of your heart and move on.

It is strange that lots of things/sayings/etc lead you to believe that the object in this life is to be LOVED. . . when in reality the object is to HAVE loved . . . since that is the only love you can claim any ownership of.

Answer 5

There is no set way for every one in the world to do this - it is different for each person. The good thing is that when the right one comes along they will return your love and you will look back and be SO GLAD this jerk did not know what a treasure he had in you - you will be so completly happy that he passed you up you will want to send him a thank you gift.

Answer 6

You know something, we don't get smarter over time with our failures/failed conquests. We only get tougher. So I hope you take comfort that this will only make you stronger (I think very often this newfound strength seeps into other aspects of our lives). I generally just remind myself that I am still living and breathing and that there are people out there who are worrying about life & death on a daily basis. Good luck and hope you feel better soon!

Answer 7

Take each second, minute, hour, day, and week as they come. Allow yourself to grieve for the loss. Try to keep to an established routine and rely on the company of good friends to support you through your healing.

Answer 8

This is when you know who your friends are, if you feel comfortable enough and have enough convidence in a friend they should be there to let you cry on their shoulder. Sometimes it helps to just let it all out, but at the same time stay strong. You were just to good for him. Good Luck.

Answer 9

thats Hard i know, and my feelings are with u and hopefully u will feel better. the best thing to do is write everyting u feel in a paper, and then just burn it or whatever u need to do with it. it will just reduce the pain slowly. sometimes crying is good too.

try to cry if u can coz u wont believe how much comfortable u will feel after it.

Answer 10

Oh I hate it, and trust me I feel for you because it has happened to me and I think it has happened to alot of people.

Really all you can do is "suck it up", grieve and move on. It won't hurt as bad with time.