I received an anonamous phone call today saying my husband is shagging two women.?

Question

How can I find out the truth? I know if I confront him he will deny it as he is a liar and a manipulator, but is he a cheat?

Answer 1

surely the first 2 are reason enough for you to leave him

Answer 2

You should know the answer to this question already. If your husband is cheating, there will be big changes in your relationship and they won't be for the better.

Be careful, however, not to mistake perfectly innocent problems as evidence of infidelity. Try to step outside of the situation and evaluate things objectively.

The most likely scenario is that a jealous, manipulative associate of either you or your husband is trying to stir up strife between the two of you because they believe this will profit them somehow. Don't play into the game.

Answer 3

If he is a liar and a manipulator then who knows what else could be happening. You need to hire a personal investigator first and get some hard evidence. Second, once you have hard evidence,(that can be used in a court of law) and he is cheating, then you need to hire an atttorney. He is not talking to you about what he is doing, so why should you? I know that two wrongs don't make a right, but don't give to him what he is not giving to you. It sounds like a very one-sided relationship.

Answer 4

Does he have use of home internet? If so, check up on him. Does he have a cell phone? If so, check his incoming and outgoing calls. Does he come home after work, if not why? Where is he? It would take time to date and screw two women, account for his time. If you already know he lies and manipulates perhaps there lies some of your clues right there. Tell him you were at the doctor today and you are positive for a STD, watch the look on his face, that will be VERY telling.
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Answer 5

If the person that called could not stand up and be counted I suggest you ignore.

If your relationship already has problems, that's a different story, the phone call is irrelevant. You need to ask yourself whether you are happy (content) with the situation as is, could it be an underlying insecurity, etc. of yours. If not, then you need to tell him what YOU want to do.

You have said he is a liar and a manipulator. This implies you do not trust him. Why hang around a stress over what he is doing or not doing to whom? If he is sleeping around, you do not need to be there ready and waiting to catch some STD that will limit you life expectancy and quality.

What do you want to do? In the words of Big Brother, "who goes you decide".

Answer 6

is there any reason for YOU to suspect hes having sex with someone else? late nights after work, hiding his mobile, dressing better than usual, disappears then says hes been to a friends etc if not then maybe someone is trying to split you both up.

if you know hes a liar and manipulator what are you doing with him in the first place, maybe hes done you a favour if he does cheat so you can dump him!

Answer 7

If he's a liar and manipulator then is he lying to and manipulating you? I would think so. You're best rid of him even if he tells you he's not cheating you won't believe him completely. You're better off without him.

Answer 8

Have him followed but the fact that you think he is a liar and a manipulator says to me that you are better off shut of him anyway. Get rid

Answer 9

if he is a liar and a manipulator then he is probably a cheat too. Go by your gut instincts, what do they tell you.

Answer 10

Usually liars and manipulators are cheaters. You need to do some investigation. Show up places your not supposed to be. Check up on him to see if he is where he is supposed to be. Check his cell phone records to see who he is calling.

Answer 11

well being a liar and a manipulator should have been your first clue.
borrow a friends car and follow him.