how old were u when u had ur first child , how many do u have and r u single mom.?

Question

And r u still with ur childrens fathers... mine baby father left me at 11 weeks and im kinda scared to do this by my self

my baby father sorry I put mine...

Answer 1

I was 22 and single...his father left while I was pregnant. Ive found I enjoy it more without him....it means I dont have to share! It will help to be close to your family...despite every families quirkiness theyll be handier than you would think.

Answer 2

I was 21 when I had my first child, and I got rid of the jerk when my daughter was 1 1/2, because he didn't want to be a responsible father and he cheated on me. He has not been in her life for in March 2007 is will be 6 years. Thank goodness for my family, because I would not have been able to raise her on my own.

I met the man of my dreams 2 weeks after I left my daughters father and he and I got married 6 months later and will be married 5 years in August. We have a beautiful 17 months old daughter and expecting another baby in May. He is an awesome father to my oldest and wants to adopt her, he is the only father she has ever know and I want to loser to stay out of her life forever.

Answer 3

These days, so many people are having children as single parents. It is a scary thing becoming a parent because of the unknown. I think we all are a little scared of the things we don't know about. Just trust yourself and go into this childs life with the knowledge that you are a good person and you are responsible enough to care for another human being. You don't NEED a husband to be happy. But you do need to trust that YOU can do it. I was 22, am 22, and am happiy married, although I have many friends who are not married who have children.

Answer 4

I was 26.5 when i had my first daughter. I have four weeks approx to go before Bubby No.3 arrives - my eldest will be 4 1/4 when it does. I am not single - with the father, but not married. We split over my first pregnancy as I was told to choose between him or the baby. I choose baby and we managed to work through it and three pregnancies on are doing ok!
Good luck - hope, if possible, you and your baby's father can also work it out. If not, I'm sure you'll do just fine and your baby will love and need you all the more xx

Answer 5

I had my first at 24, but she was stillborn. Me and her father are still very good friends, our relationship didn't survive the lose of our child. I had my second @ 26, he is now almost 5 months old and I am not with the father. Actually he took off before I even knew i was pregnant so he doesn't know that my son exists ( I did try to find him but no luck) Being a single mom is very scary but I have a wonderful family who support me and I have finally found the man of my dreams. He is wonderful with my son and considers himself as his father. Just have a little faith in yourself and try to find support from either friends or family.

Answer 6

I was 15 when I had my first and 16 with my second... with the same person. We did get married but got a divorce after 3 years. In the beginning I thought I would never make it, could never provide for my children, never meet another man, and never be a good single mom. But now 3 years later... I have a job, go to college, and have a wonderful boyfriend who has two children also, my kids had a spoiled Christmas, and we're doing good. I won't lie it is hard, and sometimes you think you will never end up where you want to be, but you'll get there. Sometimes you have to sacrifice your own wants/needs but you will pull through, and don't be afraid to ask for help. Feel free to contact me if you do.

Answer 7

I was almost 26, I have only 1 child. I am no longer with the father. I have been doing it completely on my own (without him anyway) for more than a year now. I never thought I could in the beginning, but things are ok and much better without him around. I've got a great sitter and a family who helps me out a lot when I need it, so I've been lucky. But I've always been financially independent.

Answer 8

I was 23 when I had my first... I'm 24 now. I'm still with the father of our son. Don't be scared. Yes, it is a LOT of work, but they are truly a blessing. What a jerk for leaving you, I'm sorry. Just hang in there, and try to get support from family and friends. I wish you and your baby the best. I hope to have another in the future, but for now we'll wait.

Answer 9

I had my first child at 18 and my second at 19. Those are the only two babies I have for now. I'm still with their father. Our 4 year anniversary is the 28th of this month. We're planning on trying for our third soon.

Answer 10

I was 22 years old when I had my 1st son. 25 years old when I had my 2nd son. Even thou I am married to my boys dad, I still get scared sometimes. You can do this. Your child will bring you so much happiness. Don't let your childs father get you sad. Being a parent is a hard job even if you are married or single.

Answer 11

I was 21 when i had my son....i left my boyfriend when my son was about 5 months old b/c he was a drug addict again and I refused to have my son anywhere near drugs or drugee people...I have been single since then and have moved in with my parents...I have a wonderful support system of 2 grandmas and two grandpas that live close by and my brother and all of ou friends....other grandparents live in other states...one of the pair here in town are my parents best friends and they have "adpoted" my son as a grandchild b/c they don't have one yet.......Don't be scared to do it by urself....I didn't get much help when the dad was around anyway so it wasn't the big of a change......it is better to have positve people around your child than to have a upset mommy