I’m a gay guy I would say more of a Bottom… The problem with me being a bottom is that anal sex causes discomfort; I try to relax but no matter what it still hurts. I heard that Poppers tend to relax that area and makes insertion easier. Are there guys out there that have used this stuff? How does it affect you/how does it feel? How does it feel when the affects are wearing off?
2007-01-08 03:46:01 · 10 answers · asked by No... Why Me!!!! 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hi Manny
There are many poppers in the market. Each designed for maximum "relaxation" and giving you the heat.
It relaxes the muscles by sniffing the contents via your nostrils. The more you sniff the contents, the more relaxed you get. Yet, the more heat you produce from your body. Understand you feel light headed too. You could have a raging hard on too.
When you are being penetrated, you get pretty excited too with the induce feeling. A high effect. Some people continue to sniff the content not to get relax the rear muscle due to the pain but to get the high effect of being penetrated and a stimulation to *** too.
For the person penetrating you, he may too be sniffing the popper to get it up and hard and that sensation to ***.
If the person is penetrating you is able to relax your rear muscle with patient without both of you using poppers, the sensation is even better.
Cheers!!
GS04 :)
2007-01-08 03:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by gs04 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is something better than poppers, its called foreplay. Alot of guys do not understand this word. Lube is not foreplay! A good top will always make sure his bottom is getting the proper attention.
Simple rules:
Lube is your friend
When you think you are going slow enough, slow down a little more.
Communicate!
Did I mention go slow....
Pushing a little during entry, as if you are trying to go, can help ease entry
I have heard that the cream with the pain killer in it is good, but have never used it myself.
I have used poppers, they work, but are dangerous... *can be fatal*
2007-01-08 04:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with RADA
and i want to Add tht poppers is more to open ur sinces and feel every and each touch in an amazing way in S.E.X.
regarding ur pain, there is ways to reduce it
first put some lube on ur fingers and try to massage ur *** and relax it. dont stress ur self coz the more u stress ur self about it will make the whole rough and it will hurt, just relax and remember its joy after the pain of penetration.
there is another way which is some kind of lube that has a medical thing inside which makes u dont feel any pain at all.
im not BTM, i prefer to be Top, but i use these thing to reduce the pain from my partner. and also some guys dont know how to F.U.C.K they do it very rough from the begining and it will hurt u. they should do it very slowly first and then as hard as u both want.
cheers mate and i hope i have answered ur question
2007-01-08 04:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by Boyz Charm 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Tried poppers a few times, I always get the worst migraine after. I think you should get the top to really help you out before he enters you. He could try rimming you (and any top worth his salt should know this always works). Fingering sucks because it generally does nothing for me, i've heard that some guys are really into it. Oh and rubbing/prodding their lubed cock on your hole while you lay on your front with your *** up in the air is a sure-fire way to get any man-hole to open up wide. Also, remember to relax! Good luck and be careful!
2007-01-08 04:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by kidkill18 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are experiencing discomfort because you aren't relaxed. While some people use drugs to relax, there are other ways.
If you know you are going to be intimate, try lubing yourself up and inserting a finger or 2 beforehand. Take your time and go slow. This will help loosen you up for the main event.
Good luck!
2007-01-08 05:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by ramman 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The problem doesn't sound like relaxation is your problem, but proceeding too fast.
There is a set of involuntary muscles, down there, which need to open. If they are forced, by going too quickly, they spasm (basically a cramp) causing the intense burning pain I suspect you are experiencing.
Start slow, use something small, like a finger or small dildo. Then two fingers and perhaps a larger dildo. Never proceed when you feel pain. Take it slow. Use a lot of lube. You should really like it the right way.
2007-01-08 03:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Used it once:against my will.
Forced on me by my first bf.
All I got was a terrible headache and a friend I kicked out of my life and house.
I don't do drugs either
Foreplay is the best:i just can't name all the things you can do,cause the other day I did and received yet another violation notice.U can use my messenger:they cant stop me there what I want to say,OK?
Not available for rubbish,see enough of that here already.
Greetings:Rob.xxx
2007-01-08 04:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I have used them numerous times - the effect is instant and short lived. Just a simple rush. I am a top so I have never heard that it relaxes the bottom - I just konw it gives me extra pump power!
2007-01-08 05:53:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Poppers are incredibly dangerous, and I urge you not to use them, or only do so after you do some thorough research.
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1700&highlight=poppers
2007-01-08 04:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never tried poppers, but I know people who do.
Just like ANYTHING else, do not abuse it if you decide to try it.
2007-01-08 04:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by kevin 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋