I am friends with some dude and his older brother and like his older brother thinks hes god and his little brother has no personality without his brother and like i meet them in a time when i was desperate for Friends cause i didn't know any one in this town and like he was telling me this is wrong and this and this and every thing for him is a competition its like i said he thinks hes god i was like OK man your right cause i was desperate and now i found my self better friends that took me for who I'm and they don't like take records for every little thing i do what should i do like now i don't see them alot but i don't want any thing to do with them any more what should i do?
2007-01-08 03:34:15 · 26 answers · asked by d.i.c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just dont meet them, for the first few times tell them your busy doing something and that you cannot meet them, if they are smart enough they should get the picture after a while.
Just stopping talking to them would make you look like a jerk.
You shouldnt have been friends with people who you dont like in the first place. But as you said you were desperate, So, I don't jugde you for that.
Just don't be rude by not talking all at once. Give it some time...
Good luck!
2007-01-08 03:39:16 · answer #1 · answered by alice_nobleandkind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are already kind of on the way to gradually end the friendship. People drift apart all the time. Just don't call them and if they try to make plans with you, just conveniently already have set plans you can't break. They'll get bored eventually. I don't blame you for not wanting to be friends with them, they sound awful!
2007-01-08 11:38:10 · answer #2 · answered by Summer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fin d something that interests you cars, school clubs, sports and use that as an excuse for your absence. But don't go out of your way to talk/see/interact with them, they'll loose interest soon enough. That way your not a jerk for ditching them, and you have new friends.
2007-01-08 11:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by ne_art1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to avoid them. You don't want to make any enemies, after all. If you run into them somewhere, make small talk for a minute and then leave for an "urgent appointment" or "something you just remembered you have to do".
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2007-01-08 11:36:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try by standing up for yourself don't let them tell you what to do and they will dist ins them self from you or you can ignore them by saying you've got other plans on times they wanna see you and they will get the picture.:-)
2007-01-08 11:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by nleitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol.. i do this all the time.. simply stop returning their phone calls.. and just stop hanging out with them.. when they ask do you wanna hang out.. make a lie and say.. sorry man i gotta do this tonite.. and they'll begin to understand.. that ur just moving on and you got your own **** to do.. Best of luck
2007-01-08 11:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either just outright tell them you are no longer interested in being friends with them, or just avoid them. Avoid their calls completely, or just be busy everytime they call or stop by. Make plans and hang out with your "real" friends more.
2007-01-08 11:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by cey12000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start being boring to them. Don't initiate any new meetings. Then flake a meeting or two, and fade into the sunset.
2007-01-08 11:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do nothing more than spend time with your other friends instead. There's no need to burn your bridges, sometimes we unexpectedly find ourselves recrossing bridges we never thought we would. Maybe when they've matured a little they'll be different.
2007-01-08 11:37:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop talking to them. Ignore phone calls and emails.
2007-01-08 11:35:35 · answer #10 · answered by Yen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋