Like you can't stand the father-to-be even though he's been nothing but sweet and supportive and then feel bad about it after? Afraid that you might feel like that when the baby is born, maybe evern toward the baby? Is this natural?
2007-01-08 03:32:25 · 15 answers · asked by Meliskell 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
it is normal .. when I was pregnant with my son ..I hated my boyfriend I didn't want him to touch me or anything and I did feel bad but their was nothing I could do for some reason I hated him .. while I was in labour I even told my mom not to get him from the waiting room until after baby was born I felt like I just wanted to be alone and raise baby by myself but in the end he was in the room when our son was born and after the first week of being a new mom I got over the whole hating my boyfriend thing and we did have fights about him not being helpful enough but that was 2years ago and we are still going strong, planning a wedding and planning to start trying again for a baby ... it is normal to hate the baby's father and don't worry after baby is born and your hormones go back to normal you will go back to normal too!
2007-01-08 03:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk about this with your dr. Sounds to me you will probably get postpartum depression. Theycan get you on some meds so you won't feel that way about your baby or the father once the baby is born. I get annoyed constantly. Esspecially by the father of my baby. I dunno why but in some way I feel like he has done this to me. It was my fault I got pregnant I took the condom off. But still for some reason I just can't stand him. I know part of it is that I feel like he's getting off easy. He doesn't have to carry a baby 9 months then take care of her every waking moment. We aren't together and he lives in another town 45 mins away. I feel like he's going to have such an easy life while I'm struggling. He's also not very dependable and I think he's ashamed of our baby though he always tells me he lovs that we are having a baby. Which flips my other witch f course you are you aren't having to get up every 30 mins to pee and you aren't fat and you aren't gonna have to push this out of your vagina! Men should develope milk or something when thy get a girl knocked up. Or they should get 9 month long blue balls then pass a stone and then they should have to take half the load.
2007-01-08 03:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by Kimi is 31 weeks 1/7 w/#2! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very normal for pregnant women. It's just your hormones. They will start to regulate after you have the baby. If it gets worse then you should talk to your doctor and they might be able to give you something to help with the feelings you are having.
2007-01-08 03:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by Summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the hormones. Man, I am still feeling insane. I get so so so very very angry. I will yell at everyone... it is embarrassing because I really have no reason to be acting so rude, but little things just tick me off. Like PMS only everyday... every week. Ick. It's normal though.
2007-01-08 03:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by while_love_remains 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is very normal, your body is going through all kinds of changes with an influx of hormones. right after you have the baby you may feel this way as well. or you may be crying for no reason. things like that are normal. they explained that to me when i had my daughter 6 months ago that I may be weepy, angry etc... and sure enough about a week after I had her i was crying for no reason. it lasted about a week though.
2007-01-08 03:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by yensenm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O MY GOODNESS YES.
Only mine is towards my in-laws. They are very in your face and business and normally i could handle it with class or just ignore them and not let it bother me .......but now......YIKES i cant handle it any more i just want to scream at them and tell them off !!! very unlike me usually. I worry alot too...i cant help it. lol i think its all just parts of moodswings and i have been told its natural.
Yes im afraid that ill feel like this when the baby is here i just pray that it goes away!!!
2007-01-08 03:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by mommy2be in march! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. i get mad at him for no reason at all. we can be just talking and i'll snap at him. i'm going through periods of not wanting to be pregnant and wanting to be pregnant. there are days were i'm so exhausted that i just can't take being pregnant and there are days were everything is perfect and i love being pregnant. i know that once my baby gets here that things will settle down. it's very natural to feel this way. if things don't change afterwards then you're going to want to talk to somebody about it.
2007-01-08 03:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by *~*Jon-Jon's Mommy!!*~* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is very natural-- if you can point him to some websites about what exactly you are going through right now--that should help him understand a bit better. so that he knows it isnt you-EVERY woman goes through this.
Im due in 2 weeks and am SOO VERY pms like right now, lol
I dont even want him touching me -Im very uncomfortable, I cant breathe, everything hurts -I just want this baby out!
:p
2007-01-08 03:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by Shellberry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal. I was a ***** when i was pregnant, i will admit it now, I was mean as hell you will get over it. Wasnt really mad at the baby though just frustrated. GOOD LUCK GIRL!
2007-01-08 03:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by thikingdomcome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hormones are crazy right now. That's totally normal. It will pass.
2007-01-08 03:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋