i always have dreams, vivid dreams about my ex-husband and i find myself wanting him more with each dream.
2007-01-08 03:04:27 · 19 answers · asked by blaquequeen71 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it doesn't mean you love him. we cannot control what we dream. your dream turns into a fantasy. he's your ex for a reason. find someone new.
2007-01-08 03:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have this same problem. I married my first husband when I was 18, we had 2 kids who are now 16 and 14. He was my first love. It didn't work out because we were young, but yes, I too have always had very vivid dreams about him. I see him young and so nice to me. He always wants me and we have great sex! LOL It always bothered me because I really don't want him in real life. It made me feel like I did though when I woke up. I even missed him in my dreams. We are friends now and I don't ever want him because I know we both grew up very different from each other. I just think the dreams reliving your past somehow. It's in your subconscience. Those memories you have will never go away and dreams are a way for your mind to play them out. Pray for your dreams to go away if they're bothering you, otherwise, if you had a good marriage and you really do want him again, go for it!!! Life is too short! Good luck!!
2007-01-08 03:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by newyorkjenna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably having these dreams because that is how you wish it could have been. Dreams are expressions of your feelings and thoughts. The dreams don't necessarily mean you're still in love but maybe you can see how things are going for him. Depending on why he is an ex now. You might just be living out in your dream how you want things to be.
2007-01-08 03:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by VC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the same thing is happening with me, except it's not my ex-husband, its my ex-boyfriend, and I'm engaged to be married in a couple of months.
Everytime I dream of him, it's different, more intense, and I know deep inside that I will love him forever. Nothing I do or say will change that. But I have a wonderful man in my life, and for his sake, and ours, I must try to push it aside till it surpasses.
Maybe you might be love with him still. A part of us always loves the people who were closest to our lives. This love lives inside us for eternity. Sometimes we make mistakes that we can't take back, which leave us to face the consequences. We learn and we move forward. Don't worry about the dreams. I'm trying not to worry about mine...
Goodluck & God Bless You.
2007-01-08 03:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by Yvonne Mystic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the dream means that some where inside your heart you still have feelings for him. even know you may not want to admit it you do. and until you get completely over your x your still going to have occasional dreams about him. you do still love him although it may not be as strong as what it was in the past there is still something there and probably will be there for a while. how long were you and your ex together for?
2016-05-23 10:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe dreaming about your ex means anything. I have dreams about my ex, and he was extremely violent with me, to the point of trying to kill me on several occasions. I don't know what the dreams represent, but I'm sure I don't want him, and I am absolutely not in love with him.
2007-01-08 03:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is just a history its like dreaming of a old dating partner we remember the good times and fill in the blanks. Its just the way we are wired.
2007-01-08 04:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the fact that You are asking should be enough to let you know in Your heart that You Love your Husband! Don't ask The opinions of man when you can ask The Mighty Counselor, God Himself ! Pray! and ask Him to show you the way. He Will !!
There are Rules that God has given to us in the Bible For believers that will set you free! There are 4 steps to getting closer to God which are written throughout the Bible.
If you are interested, I would be happy to share what I Know.
2007-01-08 03:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by wildman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it does not, Dreams are not always indicators of the future or past. However this could refer to your past. Hence the term ex-husband applies. Remember this If its over Its over If its not its not but do choose wisely. I wish you much happiness in the future.
2007-01-08 03:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think that you are necessarily still in love, however, you are dreaming about the good times that you guys had. But remember, good sex does not equal a good relationship.
2007-01-08 03:06:49 · answer #10 · answered by Rosie aka Rosie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋