idk what to do. he brought it up...? should I??????
2007-01-08 02:52:08 · 23 answers · asked by shorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, you have to ask yourself that. Do you feel comfortable and ready to have sex with someone you've only been in a relationship for for seven months? 7 months is a very very short period of time. If this is going to be your first time, are you ready to lose your virginity for this guy? 8 out of 10 women who've lost their's before marriage wishes that they'd waited. Also it depends how old you are and how old your bf is. Clearly you are not ready to have sex with him because you are doubting it in your mind. Don't do it unless you're absoloutley sure cos regretting it is gonna be much much worse.
2007-01-08 02:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having doubts about it don't do it. Sleeping with someone is not to be taken lightly. If you were 100% sure that you wanted to do this you would not be asking us. You also have to think if he's worth it, is he pressuring you, if he is what's the rush. There are a lot of things you have to ask yourself. Number 1 is if you are really ready to take this step. If so you have to suffer the consequence if any.
2007-01-08 12:01:14 · answer #2 · answered by Lele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you care for him and only if you are ready any guy would like to sleep with you so that is normal for him to bring it up. But you have to want to but after 7 months if you did not think of it you have to wonder if you really want to. You just don't do it because he brought it up. I would bring it up to. Will you sleep with me I would love to have sex with you. Well are go going to do it because I asked you to have sex with me.
2007-01-08 10:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing is your age honey..if its appropriate then may be u shud..secondly ina relation time span doesnt matter much..wat matters is the closeness and the trust that has been developed...if u are sure neither of u will betray each other..then think bout it or else just forget it..boys never think much bout all the bad effects..it doesnt matter to them but for us girls it is really important and a HUGE COMMITTMENT
2007-01-08 11:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by meandmyself 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hhehehehe....he's been getting some on the side all along , no guy waits THAT long for poon. He probably feels a bit guilty about it and wants to give you a chance to put out again.
2007-01-08 10:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask us Yahoo people, NO! If you are willing to sleep with him on your own, trust me it wouldn't be no doubt. Questioning and because of him bringing it up you aren't ready. So I suggest you don't.
2007-01-08 10:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by sexy c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be like the Honey Bee and spread your pollen everywhere
2007-01-08 11:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 year. Tell him. If he can`t wait that long and breaks up with you then you lucked out. He didn`t really believe you were worth it.
2007-01-08 11:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by Gone Rogue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 months of what? If dating, what are you waiting for? If you are underage, never mind.
2007-01-08 10:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by I know for sure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends don't sleep with friends. if u r thinking about sleeping with him then he is ur bf. if u want him to be ur bf then follow ur heart, but if u don't it will be a mistake that u will regret for the rest of ur life.
2007-01-08 10:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋