Taking my 4 year old Daughter, for a Blood Test. Can she sit on my lap ?

Question

I haven't told her - as she hates needles. Always screams & fights out.

Can i sit her on my lap - so i can comfort her ? Also will be able to hold her still ?

How can i make it easier for her ? She reacts very badly to -needles.

Answer 1

Yes. Most any phlebotomist or nurse drawing the blood would probably appreciate that.

I would have/did, back when I used to draw blood work from children.

Be honest with the child - don't say it won't hurt. Tell them it will sting, but it shouldn't really hurt bad. That if she doesn't move, it will be over fairly quickly.

Answer 2

It depends on the nurse but I would insist on it. Make sure the nurse knows the situation and suggest she bring in a sticker or sucker before the blood draw. This will make her happy, get her occupied on something else and befriend the nurse.

You know your daughter better than I but this is what I would do. Once you are in the office tell your daughter what is going to happen, moments before the needle arrives (I feel if you dont she feels tricked) and tell her she will get a reward for being brave (ice cream whatever). No matter what her reaction is, afterwards tell ehr what a brave girl she was ad how proud you are for doing it. It might make things go a little more smoothly next time. Hope this helps!

Answer 3

of course you can, every doctor will be very happy if you comfort her...
i'd say the best strategy would be to totally get her attention on something else... talk to her about what you're gonna do afterwards, take her favorite toy or teddy with you... and if nothing helps, there's supposedly a sedativum that works with children very well (i know that because i used that when i was your daughters age)... it's a liquid your daughter only needs to swallow a few drops and she'll be quiet and calm if nothing else works....
greets the Dr.

Answer 4

Yes, most places will let you hold them for the test. Be careful when you hold her, though. Don't restrict her movement, or it will be like you're also part of the pain.