i dont really know why i spread this in the open but im looking for suggestions as to how i can find out
2007-01-08 02:23:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask him whats his favorite madonna album, if he answers anything besides "I dont know". YOUVE GOT A GAY!
2007-01-08 02:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by tweakk 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
First of all why are you so interested in finding out if he is gay or not it really in the long run shouldnt affect your friendship unless your an *** hole and will stop being his friend if he is gay. And second of all suggestions let him come out when he is ready its not your responsibility to find out if he is gay leave that up to him!!
2007-01-08 10:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by Sexy Blonde 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why would you need to find out? If your friend is gay, then he's gay. I don't see how it's any business of yours or how it would have any bearing on your friendship with this person.
2007-01-08 10:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by kja63 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
The only way is to have a talk with him/her and ask. This can relief a lot of stress for the both of you and you can go on with your friendship. If you really want to know just remember to be non-judgmental and be all ears and just listen.
2007-01-08 10:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by sarabmw 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dont say anything...if you friend is indeed gay...they will open up to you when they feel comfortable enough to fill ya in...and whatever you do...dont go around saying i think so in so is gay...its just rude...
2007-01-08 10:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by icingonthekake99 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If this person is truly your "friend", it shouldn't matter whether or not they are "gay". Why don't you try asking them if you want to know.
2007-01-08 11:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you could ask him/her and find out for sure.
Or you can keep guessing looking for little signs and indications...
Or you can focus on the fact that you are friends, and that he/she will tell you once he/she feels ready to do so.
2007-01-08 10:26:45 · answer #7 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just continue to be a friend. If it is not obvious, then maybe the friend is not gay, or does not want it known, just yet.
2007-01-08 10:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can come right out and ask them. Question to you, would it really make a difference if they were or not?
2007-01-08 10:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tell me, does your friends sexuality changes your opinion of them. If so, then you sound like a really jacked up friend.
2007-01-08 10:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by DeCaying_Roses 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋