im inluv with my bestfriend who is a girl but im a girl to and im only turning 15 this year PLEASE HELP ME!!!?

Question

im inluv with my bestfriend that is in a grade lower then me and i think and care about her all the time and i dunno if i should tell her i wanna so bad but i dnt wana ruin our friendship she stays over here alot and we lay next to eachother in my bed and she rapps her arms around my waist and puts her head real close to my face and lays on my shoulder one night we were holding hands when i was laying the other way and she cuddled me from behind and held my hand like we were dating i wanna tell her but i cant we tell eachother we love eachother all the time and we speak alot over the fone on the computer and face to face i really really wanna be with her but i dont wanna scare her outt of our friendship and im going crazy keeping this a secret from her i dream about her nearly every night and when she touches my and lays real close i feel really weird deep down inside and i really wanna be with her and be able to kiss her but i sum times feel she feels the same but i wana knoe for sure

Answer 1

I don't think you should tell her because maybe she isn't a les.

Answer 2

I think you should tell your friend. It may not be easy. But you owe it to her as a friend. She might respond likewise or she may not. But try and have a talk with her calmly and try to explain your feelings the best you can. If she is a good friend and mature enough, even if she does not reciprocate your feelings, she would still remain friends with you although she may not be cuddling in bed with you.

Good luck.

Answer 3

ignore them above me

if you are a lesbian, which i figure you are--there is nothing wrong with that. I dont agree with it but w.e.

just get someone to ask her if she would eever date a girl.

Answer 4

Lesbian. HuH!!!!!!!!!! Ok, dont tell ur friend dat u luv her coz maybe she's not like dat.