I ejaculate as soon as I put it in the vagina.....?

Question

Why cant i last longer than 10 seconds?....What can I do to go longer?

Answer 1

According to what Dr Judy said on Love phones on Z100 in the 90's... (I listened to it every night)

In general, when this happens, it is because of one of 2 reasons... either the man feels threatened or unsafe or anxious with his partner and it is his (unconscious) way of ending things quickly

OR he loves and cares for her SO much that he is overwhelmed it feels SO good he can't hold back.

Perhaps you are just anxious? Are you new to sex?

Hopefully you and your partner are loving and communicate well with each other.

Some suggestions for you:

Try cumming before you have sex. Have her give you oral or manual stimulation (or do it yourself) till you climax and then try intercourse when you can get hard again.

Use a condom if you aren't using them, they can desensitize you and make you last longer. (As well as preventing the spread of STI's) Brands that are kind of tight or thick are better for this (i.e. lifestyles, or Trojan)

There are also lubes or condoms with lubes on them that desensitize you a little that you can use. Durex Play Longer, Desensitizing Lubricant is the one I prefer personally. Make sure the desensitizing cream is only on the INSIDE of the condom. (Unless your girl WANTS to be desensitized as well)

Do NOT try thinking about baseball lol, but DO try to think about other parts of your body instead of your penis. Really concentrate on the way your back feels when she runs her hands up and down it, think about your elbow, but don't mentally leave the scene there by thinking about baseball. The point of this is to BE with each other. Think about her. Making her feel good.

While intercourse is fun and good, it is not the be all end all of sexual experiences. You can have plenty of fun just playing with each other with your hands and mouths... feathers... Whatever comes to mind. Making love is about the intention you put into what you do with each other, not about what part goes in what hole.

Have fun. Play with each other. Set the intention to orgasm as quickly as you can. Set a timer even. Be lighthearted. Sometimes doing this can take the pressure off and you can go much longer.

I hope these suggestions help.

Answer 2

SCREW technique is a very special way to uproot PE completely even in severest of cases esp when all other methods fail to give results. Its a massage technique of penis but trains the brain to increase control over your ejaculation.

Dr A Kumar
Specialist in Treatment of Severe PreMature Ejaculation & ED
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Answer 3

There are things you can do. In the mean time after you ejaculate while your penis is recovering go ahead and continue to have sex with your partner, foreplay, massage her vulva and clitoris, etc. Then let her play with you until hard again and then go for second time and third time.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

So You Are a 1 pump Chump. Didnt think any where out there.

Answer 6

my husband had this same problem till we found a cream called maintain there is also one called detain and they really work you can only find them in drug stores its over the counter all you do is rub it on and thats it it really does work

Answer 7

**** her up the ***... The 10 seconds will seem much longer to her then, and she will truly appreciate your rapid finish.

Answer 8

Do a Google search for "premature ejactulation causes treatment"

Answer 9

get off 15 minutes prior to intercourse

Answer 10

wait a few minutes and go again