From the 1st time i met this Welsh guy in Dubai,he got attached 2 me.after 3 meetings he started 2 get angry whenever i say smthng about my ex-bf.I asked him why,he said he feels jealous &he likes me.I don't even know the guy and he started to feel over jealous.anyways it was ok 2 days later,then he txt me saying i sent a msg to someone he knows on gaydar & tht he doesn't want to talk to me again. i was like u r not my BF & we ddnt even have any commitments. & that he has no right to judge me or ask me why do i talk to ppl or whtever.On new year we made peace together and we started talking again.after tht i saw him in a club & i said hi & he totally ignored me infrnt of his friends. That did hurt, i like him but i couldnt decided to be his BF in 3 meetings.but i kinda miss him and after long thinking i decided i like him and i want him. wht shall i do? i sent him a txt saying i want him,he ddnt reply till now. my friends told me he is just playing games. wht do u think
2007-01-08 02:02:53 · 16 answers · asked by Boyz Charm 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
PS; he is a cabin crew, and that scared me coz i cant trust cabin crew.
2007-01-08 02:03:44 · update #1
To Tribble Macher:
yes welsh guy in Dubai, whts wrong with tht?
Dubai is a multi national city. even Expats are more than locals over here. there is ppl in Dubai from almost each and every nationality working here.
2007-01-08 02:34:16 · update #2
To tjnstlouismo: i have a very big self esteem, first of all i guess i was clear that he is the one who is following me, and then i said i started to like him but he is giving me an attitude now. he never treated me like a Dirt. i know he is kinda crazy and over jealous. but i know one thing, He is such a nice person, and I know that he likes me very much.
if you cant read well i suggest go and buy some glasses. coz the only DIRT is u
2007-01-08 03:02:22 · update #3
hes playing you. you seem really nice and i think you deserve someone better than that. you remind me of my friend willis....who also is atractted to men... i hate the word gay.....im 'gay' too though.....anewayz find someone more like you and focus on him. if hes like this now, what will he be like a year from now when you guys are like serious or something. find someone else. please. 3 meetings and already so much drama.....but drama does come to those who egg it on, ok?
2007-01-08 02:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by rudi trudi phoenix gordon 7 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's a pattern. Tell me if this sounds farmiliar.
You meet and he's so sweet and kind.
He gets very protective.
He gets overly jealous.
You're at this point. here's what happens next if left un-checked.
Arguements.
Arguments that escalate to blows.
Constant physical abuse.
Somebody goes to jail or gets killed.
Your need for companionship does not have to include this guy. You ARE headed for worse things If you don't break it off now.
Don't let this happen to yourself. You have a chance to avoid it so act accordingly.
Good Luck to you.
2007-01-08 03:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by Ricky J. 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 19:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play his game. If he is that jealous now, what will he be like if you make a commitment to him. I would really think about this before you make any kind of a commitment with him. Good Luck.
2007-01-08 03:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You two are not suited for one another - that is the only thing I can really get out of all the message.
2007-01-08 06:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to serious consider why you have such low self esteem as to want someone who treats you like dirt.
2007-01-08 02:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What in gay hell??? The guy is a freak!! Why would you want someone who is going to cause you nothing but misery??
Find a guy who is a little less loopy.
2007-01-08 02:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by castle h 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move along. Save yourself alot of pain and stress. That relationship won't go anywhere.
2007-01-08 02:07:08 · answer #8 · answered by Murazor 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gosh! I am quite familiar with Welsh people. Why do you want to deal with all this?
2007-01-08 02:29:23 · answer #9 · answered by Kedar 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful that he wanted to "end" whatever it was he thought you had. You can do so much better than this! (like me LOL)
2007-01-08 05:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by ramman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋