Thanks for all ur resposes...U all gave me more confidence.. Now probably with ur help,I could have more friends..People tell me that i look very beautiful(like an actress) but I have no confidence in myself..haha..I am asking u all one last time,here is my question:I am in Grade 9 and I am really very shy...I dont know what to do..I am in a real soup..I am left out in class..Why am I left out???I am more better off than all of those girls..I dont know why are they doing this to me..Those "popular girls" think that they are great..They act like freaks in school..They do not have anything which is sooo nice in them..I dont know why am i left out..Why do I have to sit with geeks in class??Why me???I was crying for 3 whole hours today...What should I do?Can someone please help me out???Please..Ur answers will be greatly appreciated..Thank you..:))..take care..Thank you all for ur kind responses..
2007-01-08 01:41:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Get over yourself, those geeks as you call them will probably make their millions before you realize your not the only person in this world.........
2007-01-08 01:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think they left you out??? because you do not fit into their fake world? Yea growing up the cute cheerleaders had their whole we are better then you attitude but after a few years they were fat, pregnant or hooked on crack. The nerds or geeks became the doctors and lawyers. Why not start your own click. you do not need them and why live a fake life? You seem like a nice girl so do not be an elitist, that's why they left you out. Just grab a couple of geek boys and a geek girl and make your own world. At least the geeks are not fake and they will not stab you in the back like the popular girls and guys will. Just give a geek a chance and you will see they are outcast because they a real.. they are true to themselves, so be true to yourself.
2007-01-08 01:56:24 · answer #2 · answered by sphericaluniverse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie jus keep ur faith..u seem as tho u are a very intellegant and smart girl its there loss they treat u like crap..jus walk with ur head up high and dont let anyone ever bring u down..have confidenace and show them u are the better person..and that ur gonna make it in this cruel world...strive too be all u can...remember if u love ur self and show the world u are someone then people will notice u jus dont be so down on urself u dont deserve that u are showing them u feel like nothing so maybe thats why they r treating u like nothing..start too feel good about urself and i promise they will notice it and start to treat u as u are someone..its hard in life in general with all the vainess and issues we have to be a woman we have too be sometimes a person who we arent jus too fit in and thats not far jus dont loss who u really are. be yourself always and that way u will know if someone likes u its because u are u and its not a lie...good luck sweetie i wish u the best of luck
2007-01-08 01:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Constance♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 41 years old and only very recently overcame that shyness. I had no confidence in my own thoughts and ideas, so at meetings, I would clam up and let everyone else put their lame ideas out there. I found myself in a smaller group, and no one had a good idea, so I meekly ventured forth with my idea, which became a whopping success, and I received a lot of credit & praise for it. Confidence begins with a leap of faith, I guess. You'll never get any if you don't try. I'm sure you've got a lot to offer, and it's going to waste if you don't put it out there. You'll find that your confidence grows FAST once you get started. Good luck.
2007-01-08 04:42:41 · answer #4 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to fit in with a group, or even with the geeks. you could find out that the geeks are really nice people even though they seem just geeks. if you would try to fit in with the popular girls you won't be ok, because you can't be yourself, am i right? i had the same problem that you have now, i was left out in secondary school because i didn't want to be friends with the geeks, but now, in highschool [i am in the 11th grade] i have a group of my own even though i don't stay with the popular girls... [i hate them too], and i started to be friends with the geeks from secondary school and found out that they are very very nice people and they aren't actually geeks. if i wouldn't have cared about my image and would have been friends with the geeks i wouldn't have been left out :) %%-
2007-01-08 02:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by Flavia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u must to believe in yourself, to love yourself who u are.
i think u shy because u not feel comfortable in that place. u have self confident but u feel it's not...
the people don't have confident they just cover there face and not go out, but u are not, u go to the school.. even u act sometimes wired but because u feel yourself not there, in other place, i am sure if u find yourself with your friends and adjust there u will forget what is going there, just ignore what u see it wrong and don't care for something not worth.. u must to care about your study and the girls after that.. your future more important than girls.. OK dear i just talking to u like my young brother and i care OK.. accept my advice and good luck
2007-01-08 02:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are jealous cause you're prettier than them and down-to-earth with not a malicious bone in your body. They don't make or break you!!! You don't need them, "Stay Gold".
2007-01-08 05:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by HARDBALZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl, cheer-up! juz be urself and b confident!! aight!! dont be a chicken... juz believe in urself and survive! the sun shines on u!!
2007-01-08 01:47:06 · answer #8 · answered by got2berachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a deal, good for you!
2007-01-08 01:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Welcome......Keep ya head up
2007-01-08 01:44:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋