A week ago i told a friend of mine that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him since he's in a long distance relationship with another girl, as a matter of fact, she's in the Phillipines and he's here in the US. Before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad and hurt about us joking about it. I told him that i really wanted to do it since i like him, but he has a gf and that it wouldn't be wise if we did it. Anyway, i got angry with him and texted him calling him a "dog" and that i didn't want to have anything to do with him, then later i apologized via text. Then three days ago, I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt hurt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals and he didn't even say hi or acknowledge that he got the letter. He didn't even say anything at all and still hasn't. Yesterday, I came up to desk to say hi but he's ignoring me. What do you think he's thinking?
2007-01-08 01:32:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
That you're still a jerk, probably. I'd stay out of his way for a couple of weeks to let it cool down, if he's still not talking to you at that point, the friendship is probably axed. Try calling him though, texting and letters are not valid forms of a serious apology, and he may have even been insulted that you thought it'd work.
Perhaps better to hold your tongue the next time.
2007-01-08 01:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter what he is thinking when you don't know what you are thinking??!?! Do you have a crush on him?? Why are you still talking to him??!? Did you not tell him to leave you alone because he has a girlfriend?!!? Can't figure out why you still want to talk to him if you are only going to get hurt?!?!
I think he is doing you a favor and respecting his girlfriend. Let him be and leave him alone. He's not yours and he never was.
2007-01-08 09:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by JustLynn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably afraid of you because of the way you acted. He has a right not to speak to you. You appear, at least to me, to be very confusing.
2007-01-08 09:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by clever nickname 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe he likes you too and he is just confused about the whole situation... give him time. Back up and leave him alone for a few days/
2007-01-08 09:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by j_kuemmel02 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You had more involvement of your feelings in the
relationship then he did.
This may have made him feel like a cheater before he
even did anything.
Let it go, and maybe one day you can be friends again.
Nothing romantic, just friends.
2007-01-08 09:52:46 · answer #5 · answered by elliebear 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think, he thinks, you think, he's a dog. You said you didn't want anything to do with him, kidding or not, he obviously took it to heart!!! Stop trying so hard, let him cool off and maybe come to you!!
2007-01-08 09:37:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
my only thought is..................you tried to convey your feeling via text message?????????? HOw harsh is that! I would be upset with you if you called me a dog and fused at me via text.......That is very IMpersonal!
2007-01-08 09:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by missyjudys 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think he's ready to be rid of you forever, its obvious that he don't want anything to do with you... just forget about him
2007-01-08 09:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by Cap'n Donna 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think he is mad because you decided not to do it.
2007-01-08 09:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by Thumper 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's probably thinking that you are nuts
2007-01-08 09:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋