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Question

well just wanted to ask ,if you know more about bondage,and is it good to try with the person who i am in love with.Thanks!!!!

i mean is it safe for me to let him tied me up,and do what he want

Answer 1

Hi,

It seems that you like to be a submissive to the one you love. Oh yeah... U may want to see me some day. i will treat you as kindly as you like. You are the one I am looking for.

Please let me tell you some of the basic submissive rights:

1) You have the right to be respected. No one should be ordering you around or expecting you to answer questions or doing things you're not comfortable with.

2/You have the right to your freedom. Just because someone is interested in you, they can't take your freedom from you. Don't let anyone try to intimidate you; you belong to no one until you offer yourself to them. They can't restrict you in any way until you allow that; and they try.

3/You have a right to be satisfied--emotionally and physically. This is a relationship, kids. While the power control aspect does add a few kinks (pun intended) into the mix, you don't get extra points for making yourself into a sacrificial lamb for someone else's amusement and/or satisfaction. Get what you need or find someone else that will give it to you.

4/You have a right to take your time and not rush into anything … ever. Being chained in the doorway, naked and … vulnerable … isn't really a good time to find out your Dominant wants to explore their sadistic side a little more. Talk, talk, talk … and talk some more. If you have concerns that aren't addressed, move on. It's not worth the risk.

5) You DON'T have a right to play "needy and desperate." Who in the world wants to own someone that doesn't have a backbone and will submit to anyone for any reason? Big satisfaction potential there.

6) You have a right to respect yourself. This means holding out for the relationship YOU want and not being talked into the relationship someone else wants with you. You're submissive, not stupid and, if you're not going to be happy, you're only wasting everyone's time. And, a collar … any collar … isn't worth your peace of mind. Honest. It has to be the right one.

7) You have a right to be safe. This means having the identity of the one you're going to be spending time with. If you have concerns, tell them. If they don't readily offer information you request, wonder why. And, keep moving.

8) You have the right to enjoy this … always. If you find you're in a relationship that's bringing more tears, confusion and unreasonable or uncomfortable demands than smiles and … warm fuzzies … take some time to pull back and see what's going on or talk with someone else about it, either your Dominant or a friend who knows the lifestyle. It's very possible that you've fallen into the "comfort zone" of being in a relationship just to be in a relationship. That's no good. The same basics apply here as anywhere; something's wrong if you're taking medication just to get up in the morning. You deserve more than that. Have the courage to find it. You'll be glad you did!

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Answer 2

You both can educate yourselves about erotic bondage (there is a very good book by Midori), and BDSM and enjoy adding that to your sex play. However, don't EVER let anyone tie you up that you don't know, haven't been with for a while, haven't check out his references, and always use a safeword.

If these things all seem foreign to you, especially a safeword, then the answer is no, not until you both know what you are doing.

Answer 3

This is a off the wall question, but not one I haven't heard before.
What you due is you business. I wont say right or wrong. I think you already know the answer yourself, and have already made your mind up with the the answer. Maybe you just want too feel support from others. I am not qualified to give a answer. You will do what you think is best.
Only one thought.....did you ever see that movie with the person tied up, laying there with a heart attack?

Answer 4

Make sure it's with a person that you trust and start slow and work your way up from there. I like to wear skintight spandex when I get tied up. There's nothing quite like wearing a skintight spandex leotard and tights and getting tied up with a ball gag in my mouth! (Except maybe a good spanking!)

Answer 5

As long as you trust him, set sane and sensible limits that you are both happy with and know that if you feel uncomfortable unhappy about somthing you can get it to stop. It is all bout trust if you trust him / her go for it, have fun experiment and see where it leads.

Answer 6

yes, yes, yes!!! bondage is one of the best ways to have sex. just make sure that the two of you have words that tell you to back off. communication is key. and try using silk scarves. they are not only great for binding hands, but it works well when you are pulling it when its aroung your partners necks

Answer 7

only if there is trust. some people here have no clue what bondage is

Answer 8

lol well i dont really know alot about bondage but i heard it can be fun lol apparently pain can make climaxing more pleasurable but thast onyl what i've heard, lol try researching it up on wikipedia or google or something but remember don't be too rough :P

Answer 9

try it and see have a code word so that if your not comfortable and want it to stop that word is the key and ENJOY

Answer 10

When the trust is there, by all means, but have fun!