my fiance desperately wants he and his brother to be roommates and myself and his brothers girlfriend does not want to share homes? I just fell like they will be in my business and i dont want that!!! What should i do? Ive already told him how I feel????
2007-01-08 01:14:46 · 13 answers · asked by kawasakigurl1400 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2007-01-08 01:16:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a definate no from yourself then your fiance has to respect your wishes, there is absolutly no point entering into a home share with his brother and his fiance if it is going to be a situation you hate. Explain again to your fiance that if you live together you want it to just be the two of you as you feel your privacy as a couple is important and although you have nothing againts his brother and his brothers fiance
2007-01-08 01:20:46 · answer #2 · answered by Chill_Out 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any questions in a relationship that will involve both partners should be answered with a yes from both people. If one person says no, then the answer should be no because one of you doesn't like the idea.
Stick to your guns on this. You need to teach him how to treat you and respect your opnions. It's better to start now before you're married.
Tell him to help his brother find a place near where you live.
Good luck!
2007-01-08 01:20:42 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can they live together? Sure, if they want to be a quouple (a couple made of four people). Sooner or later, somebody's bound to break and sleep with the wrong person. Just hope it's not your fiance and his brother.
2007-01-08 01:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by crispy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself a couple of questions:
can you see you guys getting along and enjoying it or fighting more?
do you and/or your fiance get along with everyone and each other? cause nothing like a whole lot of fighting to piss off your roomies and last how long do you think your gonna be staying that might be a problem if its a full time thing cause a married couple is to start there own life together not shared.
2007-01-08 01:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best each and every thing could desire to be divided the two the place you have your area or have issues and additionally once you reside inclusive of somebody you agree if mandatory, as you all could desire to stay jointly and could make existence an awful lot extra perfect for you in case you all have been given alongside. If she isn't prepared to compromise or come to any arrangements with you and your different flatmates then she should not be residing with you, she is being egocentric and incorrect. yet as she is your brother's female pal you and her arguing is barely going to push your brother away and the bond between the two certainly one of you will shrink. call a house assembly the place you all have a say in whats the residing arrangements, gala's honest so which you ought to speak and all of us has a say on what is going on and what area is theirs. If it does not paintings and she or he would be able to't be honest then i might pass out as in the experience that your brother can no longer see what she is doing and communicate some experience into her then no person is going to and he's barely being submissive to her controlling procedures as he could think of by potential of attempting to alter her he will lose her. purely your brother could make up his ideas and awaken to her procedures as by potential of attempting to tension her or him to do something and reason arguments along with her is barely going to make issues worse and your brother has to awaken and scent the roses and awaken to certainty which you all could desire to could desire to provide in to somebody like her. you are able to provide your brother your opinion and suggestion on condition that he needs it yet on the top of the day if he does not desire to settle for that this female is egocentric and not a good individual then that's barely going to push him away by potential of the two certainly one of you struggling with consistently.
2016-11-27 19:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your decision! Too many adults, living under the same roof, creates trouble!
2007-01-08 01:19:26 · answer #7 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just asking for trouble. Not a wise decision.
2007-01-08 01:18:25 · answer #8 · answered by Nunya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 Women in 1 household will NEVER work... I tried living w/my sister and her kids...didn't work... I'd just tell them all we want our own privacy, and don't feel it is in our best interest to do this... and don't want to end up as enemies --Good luck!!!
2007-01-08 01:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you all need to grow up and get your own space. There's nothing wrong wit visiting from time to time. I like to be free and my mate likes to "free ball". GET YOUR OWN SPACE
2007-01-08 01:48:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but ONLY id you get e REAL bike,a Harley!
2007-01-08 01:17:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋