I went to my boyfriends house and there was a party, alot of his friends were there from london. There was alot of drinking and dancing and everybody was having a good time. Near the end of the evening one of the friends took me by the hand and dragged me into the living room and tried to kiss me. I didnt know what to do and was quite scared so i just sat there with my head down. Soon after my boyfriend came in and took me back to the dancing. I feel a fool and very upset, I didnt know the man and dont know why he thought it was ok to do this. Sould I tell my boyfriend????
2007-01-08 01:14:46 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hell yes!
you messed up once by not telling him at the party.
Make amends by telling him sooner than later.
Lies or lack of telling the truth never helps.
Just think if you would want to know if one of your friends did that.
That should be an easy one
2007-01-08 01:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell your boyfriend however the words that you use and how you use them is important. Why did you not tell your boyfriend that very same night? You should've pushed the guy away and went to find your boyfriend to let him know what happened. You're letting too much time go by and he may think you wanted this other guy to kiss you. Not to mention if you had not witnesses you may have a problem. Then after he kissed you you just sat there. Right then and there you should've slapped him, pushed him or anything to bring attention to the situation. You need to go talk to your boyfriend and hope his friend hasn't already told him that you kissed him.
2007-01-08 02:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy was a bit drunk.
He found you attractive.
He tried to kiss you -- and probably a few others as well.
That sort of thing happens at parties.
If your bf mentions anything involving him, tell your bf that he tried to kiss you when he was drunk and you didn't like it. Otherwise, just put it to the back of your mind and make sure your bf knows that it's HIM and ONLY him that you're interested in.
2007-01-08 01:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy might have thought you a local ho. Tell your bf. And next time when you go to a party with the guys drinking you better watch out.
2007-01-08 01:17:04 · answer #4 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He needs to know that his friend tried this. The only problem lies in this...if he doesn't trust you he may think you are lying OR that you tried to kiss his friend. There is some risk there but personally I would want to know if one of my friends tried this on my girl!
2007-01-08 01:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by Trevor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your boyfriend because he thinks this guy is his friend. You should have gotten up and walked away. Did your boyfriend question you as to why you were in there in the first place?
2007-01-08 01:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by nellyann1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing there was no harm done so forget about it the guy must probably have been drunk and has no relatioship with any girl at all and he felt that you and your boy had some thing good going on and he wanted to be with you because he was drunk and could not control himself so I would sugest that you forget about it
2007-01-08 01:19:35 · answer #7 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think what you did is ok, but if your boyfriend didn't find out till now, and you tell him, he could think you are lying and trying to push away his friend but if his so called friend will tell him first, he may think you tryed to kiss him. anyway, maybe he was just drunk and hiting him would have made him angry. so... in the end i hope you'll make the right choice.
2007-01-08 01:33:57 · answer #8 · answered by Flavia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!
2007-01-08 01:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, make sure that it wasn't just a misunderstanding. Those can happen. If he's persistent. Let him know that you don't appreciate it. THEN if he still wants to. Bring The Squeeze into the Picture.
2007-01-08 01:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋