I am a 21 year old black woman and my cousin Tyrell feels like a social outcast and is getting shunned at home too. He lives in an all white community and he says he wishes he could be with a white girl. He says white girls at his school dont like him. The other day his sister walked in on him masturbating to a picture of skanky Lindsay Lohan and she told his parents and they said that he is forgetting who he is. I talked to him and he said he just loves white girls and cant help but to lust over them. He said he feels like an oreo cookie (black on the outside, white on the inside) because he masturbates to the blond and brunette cheerleaders and pretty white girls in his school. He said he does the same think as celebrities. Do you think white women are sold by the media as Greek Goddesses and is that why cousin Tyrell is warped?
2007-01-08 01:02:02 · 27 answers · asked by eraider101 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
He lives in an all white communitity and this is happening...gee how strange is that?
As far as your actuall question yes I do agree with you white women do seem to have prefrence in the media. Hollywood and media alike. If a white woman gets kidnapped its like a huge big deal. If its a woman of another race the media doesnt seem to give a crap.
But I dont think thats was ol' cuz is warped. Sounds like a normal kid who masturbates and fantasizes about other kids, yet he cant do this pertaining to a black girl cause maybe there are not so many around to pick from.
2007-01-08 01:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well This Is A Kind Strange Problem! I Think He Just Want's What He Cannot Have Simply BECAUSE He Cannot Have It! ( Being White My Self ) I Don't Think A White Women Has Any More To Offer Than A Black Women! It's Just His Choice To Like White Girl's, But He Might Need To Tone It Down A Bit Are This Could Lead To Something Worst! Such As Sexual Assult Charges, So As Long As He Keep's In On The DL It's Fine! As Long As He Don't Get All Crazed About It.
2007-01-08 01:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by † Dark Prince † 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I believe women in general are "sold" by the media as objects of desire, because the media and the commercial market know that sexuality sells. Sad huh? Your cousin is doing what is only typical of someone in the type of situation he is in. Who else is he supposed to desire? If there are very few ladies of color in his environment then what is he supposed to do about it? And when someone says, "he is forgetting who he is", what exactly do they mean? He is being what he is supposed to be and thats a male.
You mention he is in high school? Your cousin is cranked up with hormones right now and their is nothing anyone can do about that except try and give him some direction so that his hormones don't get him in trouble. Tyrell isn't warped. Tyrell is doing what is only coming natural to him as a result of his environment. If ethnic "purity" is important to his parents, but not to him then there is going to be some conflict. If a Caucasian father pushed ethnic "purity" in his family he would be labled a racist, right? So what's the difference? They better get ready, because more than likely he is going to bring a "white" girl home for dinner one day.
Blessings!
2007-01-08 01:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by Goober W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a 25 year old white woman......I totally agree with you on that these white SKINNY girls are being sold to the media. It is nasty world. You have to be under a certain code to be sexy not only white but, light eyes,blond,skinny and big boobed. It's men that are making girls like Paris, Lindsay or Brit sex symbols. If men stopped lusting over them then they would stop wanting the attention they crave. These girls have ruined the rep for the girl next door....as for your brother eeeww why Lindsay lol. Try looking for a nice mixed girl for him. He needs to find out who he is again. The main point is that these woman are now on our local news saying who is wearing panties or not. This makes it hard for men to not want to watch and listen. Celebrities can keep it in Hollywood and in the magazines. They need to stop talking about them more than or local news.
2007-01-08 01:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by Roxy~Kat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they are sold as greek goddesses in the media, mostly because the pictures you see are doctored to an incredible degree. i wouldn't worry too much about your cousin, mostly cause he's in high school, and that's what you do in high school (masturbate A LOT to anything and everything). but, i'm a big believer in "whatever floats your boat" kind of mentality, maybe you should talk to your aunt/uncle about being more understanding.
2007-01-08 01:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by mizzouswm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You are such a bigot.
Would you be happier if we brought back segregation to keep us evil white folks from warping your poor misguided Tyrell? After all we were kind enough to give him the honor of living in our community and now that he is aspiring to be with a Greek Goddess (i.e. white person). I guess you would be happier of your cousin if we was banging some crack whore and popping a cap into some gangsta...
2007-01-08 01:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin B 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
it is not being warped to be attracted to different colors at all.
when i was growing up i loved to look at black girls, as a grew older i got into asians then i married white.
it really had nothing to do with media or any outside pressures. it was just what i liked.
i also think that the way you see this whole situation as being racist. i mean really what i swrong with him looking at white girls.
2007-01-08 01:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. And i don't think he is warped. I find black and asian women attractive even though I am white.
I think the media is screwed up but theres no harm in lusting over women.
2007-01-08 01:18:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the contrary, my observation for the last many years is, that white girls feel that Blacks are more virile.Maybe they R right.
Remember whom Prez Johnson's daughter married?
2007-01-08 01:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does skin color even matter? Tyrell is attracted to a certain type of girl, just as any guy is attracted to a certain kind of girl. He just happens to like white girls while he, himself, is black.
This has nothing to do with "forgetting who he is". People like whom they like. Why is color an issue?
2007-01-08 01:06:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋