I have friends who always ask me what am I doing, am why and when. But some I dont trust with all that information, cause some try to cut them selves and all that crazy stuff and try to get me to do it. And one even said she sees demons and all this crazy stuff but I still want to help her. Is it okay for me to feel scared about giving them that info? What should I tell them if it's not? Is it okay for me to lie, seeing as I dont really feel comfortable about giving them my info about where I will be when I am by myself if they try to get me to cut myself and hurt myself?
2007-01-08 01:00:14 · 8 answers · asked by --; cookie. 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
if they are hurting themselves you should talk to your parents so they can talk to their parents. if you feel uncomfortable with them knowing where you are, its OK to lie. personally i wouldn't even talk to people like that
2007-01-08 02:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia's Mama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never a good idea to lie. You need to cut them from your group of friends. They are probably in counseling and if you keep hanging with them you will end up there too. Keep safe by ending the relationships. They need professional help and you are not a professional..
2007-01-08 01:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by shelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Integrity means telling the truth even when it hurts. But, there are creative ways to get around giving the truth. like changing the subject, or commenting on the opposite of the question. Or using the phrase "I would do it this way"
2007-01-08 01:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely okay to lie to protect yourself, but it won't make this issue go away. You need to be willing to stand up for yourself, and tell them 'no' straight up, whether it's about where you'll be or what you're willing to do to yourself. They want you to participate because it affirms what they do. But you know it's not okay.
Never do anything you don't feel good about doing, and be strong enough to say so. You can't help these people by meekly letting them have their way.
2007-01-08 01:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by KC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its alright to lie sometimes if you can finde your way out of it. I would report this to the police because this could be very serious but ask someone you know first
2007-01-08 01:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by leanne j 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There s no way to sugar coat it, there is some crazy crap going on here - seek help, IMMEDIATELY!!!!
2007-01-11 21:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont lie, go like NO.... just nuthin.... my friends no NUTHIN of my life and i've come to school crying before, and i still dont tell them.. and if u r lying 4 safty, go ahead
2007-01-08 02:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOSE THE LOSER FRIENDS!!!!!
This is NO LIE!
2007-01-08 03:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋