hello, please help me, i confessed my feelings to this girl i liked and she took it fine, but she told me not o be like this, liking her. but i can't help it, i still like her but i lied to her, i told her i did'nt like her anymore but i still do, what can i do now? it's really hard keeping this inside...
2007-01-08 00:34:55 · 13 answers · asked by Rai W 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
As I lay on my bed, thinking about you, I feel this strong urge to grab you and squeeze you, because I can't forget last night.
You came to me unexpectedly during the balmy and calm night, and what happened in my bed still leaves a tingling sensation in me.
You appeared from nowhere and shamelessly, without any reservations, you laid on my naked body... you sensed my indifference, so you applied your hungry mouth to me without any guilt or humiliation, and you drove me near crazy while you drained me. Finally I went to sleep.
Today when I woke up, you were gone, I searched for you but to no avail, only the sheets bore witness to last night's events.
My body still bears faint marks of your enthusiastic ravishing, making it harder to forget you.
Tonight I will remain awake waiting for you...
... you damn mosquito
2007-01-08 00:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You took a chance, which is hard to do, because it makes you vulnerable. She wasn't interested, which is her right. I suspect you lied to save face from the rejection, or perhaps to regain the girl's approval.
You feel how you feel, and it is ok. She feels how she feels, and that's ok too. She is not interested, and you are having a hard time letting go. That's normal. You don't have to lie about it. Just don't impose your feelings on her, because she has told you she doesn't share them, and you should respect that. But she has no right to tell you how you should feel.
My advice is to grieve your loss (of the hope for a relationship with her) with people who love and support you, and eventually you will move on.
This is all part of the process of loving and letting go. It's hard, but almost everyone experiences it. Better times will come.
2007-01-16 03:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by curious1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to tell you my little confession story:
Okay, so there's this really really cute guy. He's a mix, and he is soooooooo cute. He's really shy and quiet around gurls, but he's always laughing and loud with his bestfriends. I found this side of him really adorable, and well, I began to be interested in him. We were in like 2 or 3 same classes. Anyways, I got his email (i dunt remember how) and then we started to chat online often. Everytime I came on msn, he'd be on, and we'd talk for a long time. Well, we some how sort of got on to the subjects of who we liked, and I told him that I would tell him on Valentines day (since it was coming soon), and well, I was going to confess to him on Valentines. However, near Valentines, he told me who he liked. This girl named Renuka... or Rachel... they're twins and they're both really pretty and perfect. They're super nice to everyone, and they're really smart and hot and they are relaly relaly popular. Well, considering how nice they were, I wasn't really surprised because there were alot of guys that liked them. But I didn't get discouraged... except that this information got me kinda disappointed because I thought he was interested in me. Valentines day passed, and I finally got the courage to tell him that I liked him. He immediately replied that he liked me as well, and well, I was extremely happy. This was all over msn. Right after, we both went offline. The next day, he told me over msn, "Hey, I don't really like you. It was just a joke." I was dumbfounded, and I just replied, "you seriously didn't think that I would like a guy like you, did you". It's been a year since, and now, I have almost all of my classes with him (what a coincidence).
What depressed me the most was that he suddenly said that he disliked me. One minute, he liked me. Another minute, he didn't like me. I was confused. Just tell her straight out. No point in lying to yourself.
2007-01-12 23:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by Bubble T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you accept rejection? its kind of gambling, if you tell her the truth, then instances maybe she might get distance with you, but If you keep it yourself, emotional punishment on your side are annoyingly cramming on your head all the time.
telling her the truth it wont hurt by knowing that you still like her, atleast from that confession you will know where you stand for. and work it out afterwards...cheer
2007-01-16 04:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by believeme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG u poor thing, I did the same with a dude I used to like, he told me that we should stop talk and we cant be friends becuz I like him and I told him no I dont like u anymore (but i still did), but now when I look back, I thought "Why did I try to push myself towards someone who is pushin me away and tellin me he is."
2007-01-14 23:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by ♦Bl!nd PoeT♦ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confess to her that you lied to her, you still love her. That's the fact. And this is called Love. You obey her not to show it, but you still can't stop loving her.
2007-01-15 05:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by Kakoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unrequited love is one of the staples of the universe so don't feel alone. However...You told her how you feel, she told you she doesn't feel the same. You now have two choices. Accept it and put your romantic affections elsewhere or just don't be around her at all.
2007-01-12 19:57:07 · answer #7 · answered by Faron3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like George Washington said when they asked who cut down the cherry tree. He said,
"I cannot tell a lie. Abraham Lincoln did it!"
2007-01-08 08:38:38 · answer #8 · answered by KiLLJoY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your best bet is to bit the bullet and tell the truth. Honesty is the best policy.
2007-01-14 18:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by John R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh.... if you like her tell her and if she don't like you she will let you know and then go from there just don't stalk her... Sane women hate that
2007-01-15 17:19:42 · answer #10 · answered by missme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋