why do i feel like a silly little girl when my partner even has a slight thought about sex . I used to be the saucy one , its not like its my kids fault as my youngest is 4 and where not married . I need some help ?
2007-01-08 00:22:03 · 8 answers · asked by kelly j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He could just be tired of the SOS. That does happen, you know and I'm not trying to be harsh or rude. It's reality. Familiarity lowers a man's libido. I also agree with the 1st answer from miss smidgey, you need to please yourself and not worry so much about pleasing him. Men like it when they know you're enjoying the experience. If you're laying there wondering if he's being pleased, you take something very valuable away from the act. Do what pleases you and watch him light up.
2007-01-08 00:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your so focused on pleasing your partner that your trying too hard and hence becoming very anxious about the whole situation. Maybe just spending quality time or taking a trip without the kids might make a world of difference.
2007-01-08 00:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by michelle_in_aus2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex was created by the Almighty to be a tremendous bonding experience, to be enjoyed in marriage. If you take the package apart, you destroy it.
2007-01-08 00:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by hasse_john 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can try and spend more quality time with each other first. Try and enjoy your time together, maybe got out for a nice meal and relax !!!
2007-01-08 00:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know where kids come from and don't want to take a chance of having more?
2007-01-08 00:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do something about birth control and then you can relax and enjoy it.
2007-01-08 00:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u talk to him freely,if it is not helping go for a psychiatrists counselling
2007-01-08 03:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to learn how to please yourself 1st & be more confident about your body
2007-01-08 00:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by miss smidgey 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋