It seems to me I see several married women I know and their Myspace site and it's almost like this is SOME women's little way of "innocent" flirting and receiving attention from men. I'm not saying that married women with myspace sites are actively seeking men, but from what I have seen over time, they sure like the comments from men on their pictures. Maybe this is their way of feeling fun and flirty again, in what they think is an innocent way, which is really too bad. Agree or disagree?
2007-01-08 00:06:56 · 13 answers · asked by TB28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Same goes for married men. I'm not condoning this. I think it's pathetic.
2007-01-08 00:15:22 · update #1
So what is wrong with "innocent flirting" and receiving attention from men? It's not as though these people are jumping into bed with each other (okay, not most of them). It is nice to know that as a woman, you are still attractive and desirable to someone other than your husband. I know that my husband doesn't make me feel beautiful nor desired. Of course, he still wants sex with me (all the time), but it does nothing for my mental image. I never hear him say "Wow, you look nice" or "You've got pretty eyes". He gets his girl magazines (Stuff, Maxim, Playboy, whatever), he visits his porn sites, he checks out match.com. It's okay for him to look? I'd like to feel I am more than a convenient body. I need that ego boost, that self esteem lift.
2007-01-08 03:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Therese 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I am a Myspace addict (hubby calls me that). We have a joint account on there. Yes, I do have some pics on there that have gotten a few comments from other men. However, if the guy isn't a friend first, he can't make any kind of comment, unless he sends a private message.
Also, the pics can't be too risque, myspace is really good about deleting accounts with a lot of nudity in them. I don't know about other women, but I don't use myspace as a confidence builder in anyway. I have too many real friends and family on there.
For those married men or women openly looking for fun outside marriage, thats all on them. Anyone who answers such profiles or messages looking for fun outside marriage is asking for issues...Beware!!
GL;)
2007-01-08 01:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by hotmama1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you got married would you like all compliments to stop? Never get a "look" sr wink? Let me tell you it helps a woman to know that even though she is married she is still attractive to the oppisite sex. Its a ego thing I'm sure , But before you check out a guy do you look for a weeding ring? And if he has one you say oh I can't admire his good looks? There is no harm in looking or giving a compliment as long as you don't jump the person like a dog on a bone.
2007-01-08 00:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Plenty of my married male and female friends have a myspace account. They set up these accounts because it's another way of communicating with their spouses. It's another way to email. I think MySpace has done more good than not.
2007-01-08 00:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by Aine14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps they're negelcted at home - not an excuse, just a thought. I think it's SO sad what the computer age has done to relationships. Just look at the "Ashley-Madison" website that promotes cheating, or that crappy show "Temptation Island" that encourages infidelity. It's making trust a hard thing to grasp these days, as so many people give into temptation.
2007-01-08 00:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way is it innocent.
If you are married and want to stay married - stay away from my space. My children go on myspace but I only allow to have their information private and only their friends can talk to them - I have a computer monitoring system and can see all they do and type
2007-01-08 00:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by Confussedhere 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree.
And over time they'll feel "flirting" isn't enough and they'll move to the next step of meeting someone after countless others convince them they deserve better.
2007-01-08 01:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how about Myspace & married men?
2007-01-08 00:13:00 · answer #8 · answered by Miki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haven't got much of a clue about my space...but frm the looks of ur question i shall go and check it out for sure......thnx a lot dude :)
2007-01-08 00:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by arshad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
innocent no way I am experienced in married females they want it ALL and NOW too
but they want to stay married and get it from whom they want when they want it
if you can talk to them you WILL get what you want from them so their husbands do not find out
work it , work them just right and you have ALL of them in the palm of your hand
and in bed too
2007-01-08 00:10:20 · answer #10 · answered by david s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋