I will give him whatever he wants whenever he wants. Why does he stay up all hours of the night looking at porn on the computer? It makes no sense to me.
2007-01-07 23:59:03 · 13 answers · asked by AJ W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
don't take it to personal, all night seems a lot, that does sound like an addiction and addictions are hard to loose (like smoking or drugs)
If you love him, try to slowly take him of this addiction, for example say, OK 2 hours computer porn, 2 hours real porn with me?
2007-01-08 00:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by rooie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a definite line to addiction. Just because someone looks at it sometimes doesn't mean they are addicted. Unless it interfere's with his life then I don't see why you care so much. Do you still have regular sex? does he talk to you? do you think he wants to cheat? If you answer yes to one of those he very well could have an addiction and he needs help. If he just likes to look at it in the evening it's not a big deal. In fact, it could even be fun if the two of you watched together. Be careful when you call something an addiction. Good luck.
2007-01-08 00:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that's what he likes and you can do all the things he sees on the videos and he still will want more of what he can't have.This personally would turn me off him after a while and make me feel kind of dirty,so props to you for trying to please a man that can't be satisfied the regular ways.Notice I didn't say the word normal ways because what's normal for me may not be normal for some one else,but eventually porn will turn some women off because we like to be liked for us,not some fantasy female that will never be.
2007-01-08 00:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are ruled by their visual selves. Women are ruled by our emotional selves. Men require visual things to stimulate them, arouse them, etc. It isn't really doing any harm is it? My fiance liked to look at porn when we first started dating. I looked with him, I watched movies with him, went to a strip club once and even looked on the computer with him. My thought to the whole thing is that I will never look like that bombshell, and beauty should be admired--I was game to try different things, and I became his sexual fantasy. He doesn't look at porn anymore--he is totally obsessed with my body, and watching me--he says it is like unwrapping a present everyday. Try and not make such a big deal over it. Watch it with him. Take an interest, and see what it is that is turning him on, and don't be afraid to try it!! What is it going to hurt--open your mind and communicate with him--it will only make things better!!!
2007-01-08 00:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can install a software like NetDog Porn Filter on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2007-01-08 11:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the common theme of the porns?
Are there homosexual acts among men? He could secretly have desires or curiosities about what another guy feels like to touch.
Are they all "buttfu##ing movies? Well, do you ever have anal sex with ime?
Do they have an interracial theme? Maybe he secretly admires women of another color, and wants to try that...
Are there alot of movies with fat women / young women / whatever type of woman? Maybe he has a fetish for that type... What type are you? Have you gained alot of weight? Are you as attractive as you once were to him? DO YOU STILL HAVE SEX WITH HIM AS OFTEN AS HE LIKES?
And if not - why not? Did HE gain alot of weight, and then can't understand why you aren't interested in him?
Do the movies portray a particular fetish? Bondage / Restraints / Food / Feet / large or small breasts / butts / "*** showers"? Would you let him tie you up / play with food during sex / pay extra attention to your breasts or butt / let him *** all over you?
Be intelligent about this - there is alot that can be learned from the porn a man watches.
Why don't you stay up and watch it with him??? Surprise the crap out of him, and maybe you'll just find out what a turnon porn is. My woman is the one who buys all of our porn. We watch it together. She particularly enjoys girl/girl action, because she "knows how good it feels to be licked" - and there is ALOT of licking in girl/girl porn. It's a turnon to her - and you may find his porn to be a turnon to you - or that it will give you new ideas to spice up your love life..
Stop being such a prude, and join in on him in his fantasy life - and save your marriage - and - better yet - make it better than anything he could possibly find outside your home!
You start joining him, and encouraging him in his fantasies, and you'll be amazed at how he suddenly will start caring for and about you and your love for one another.
Why are so many women ignorant to what their men want?
Why are so many men ignorant of what their women want??
COMMUNICATE - COMMUNICATE - COMMUNICATE!!!!!
2007-01-08 00:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by Michael, Count de Berçon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
And it makes no sense to me either.
Of course I am married to a wife who is sex averse, and I have been without sex for over two and a half years. But why someone would passover a real life enthusiastic partner, for screen images, beats the hell out of me.
So... does he care about your sexual needs/pleasures?
2007-01-08 02:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are born to love watching naked women. This could not be help. Perhaps, his testorone level is a lot more than any normal men.
2007-01-08 00:02:38 · answer #8 · answered by Carl R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know.Still tryig to figure out why my husband feels the need to take his to work.
2007-01-08 00:51:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never will. Men are somewhat deviant when it comes to sex. It doesn't matter what is made available to them - they want more/something else. I feel bad for you.
2007-01-08 00:02:28 · answer #10 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋