We are trying to persuade our stepmother to show us a copy of my dads will but she is saying that his will is?

Question

She is now refusing to comminicate on any level and has threatened to cut us out of her will if we say any more.

Answer 1

If dad is deceased the will should be filed with city records and is public information.

Answer 2

Then you better stay out of their business. If dad wanted you to see the will, he would have given you a copy. I believe it'll become public knowledge when you dad passes away. Then if needed, you can contest the will if there were any changes to the will recently before he passed. If he was on medication, there's a good chance you'll have a case if he signed on a dotted line to leave you out of the will.

Just the same, why not ask your dad about his wishes and if there is any paperwork you should know about, such as his will. If he's older, he'll understand. Make sure he knows it's because you want what's best for him and to make sure his needs are met. Such as "feeding tubes" to keep him alive. Coma...that sort of thing too, then the subject of the Will will come up and you can go from there. Leave your step mother out of it and alone!

Answer 3

Honey, that is none of your business! It is ok to ask your family members if they have made THEIR wishes known in a will so that you are not left guessing what they would have wanted. Beyond that, you are being RUDE. Shame on you and good for your stepmother to have some backbone to tell you children to mind your own business.

Answer 4

verify with a legal expert as we talk who makes a speciality of materials and Probate regulation.A will might desire to be filed and enter into probate.If there is not any will the valuables would be dispensed in accordance to the guidelines of your state or province.There are rules to guard the survivors interior the form there is not any will. To be valid, a will might desire to additionally meet particular standards.i'm not a legal expert yet have heard of an identical experience from a kin member.

Answer 5

if you dad is dead, you have every right to see the will - you are immediate family. but, if he is alive, i'd mind my own business - this is your father's and stepmother's business - it doesn't become your business until one dies or they want you to know what the will holds.

Answer 6

well....I am not sure what your issue is...do you think that there is something in the will that you were entitled to that she has not given you? Contact a lawyer and see what you can do...good luck

Answer 7

i think ur stepmom is a greedy *****, u better consult a good lawer