what do you do if your so far deep in circumstances you cant get out of and suicide is the best option. ive looked at other options but they all seem hopeless.
2007-01-07 23:29:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I can promise one thing, that you do have the strength and if you can hold on one more minute, hour, day, etc., things will change. You do have what you need to survive! Someone or thing has deceived you into thinking you cannot. When things are terrible for me, I find that looking at any blessing, any good thing around/about me, and continue looking, the darkness shifts, and I find that little ray of hope, and then my perspective changes...Hold on Angel Dust :-)
2007-01-07 23:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Wood Smoke ~ Free2Bme! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is never an option. Theres always a way out. Dont know how deep your problems go but everything will get better.
Trust me. I used to be addicted to heroin and my life was so far gone that all I thought about was suicide. Then one day I overdosed and almost died. My parents had to bust my door down to save me. Ever since then life has been a lot better. Never thought I would ever be happy to be alive.
I have finally realized that there is so much to live for than to die for.
2007-01-08 07:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like wisely said by other "suicide is not an option"... never...
If you have any friends or family, look for their love and advice... try to find new thing in life, try to develop a new and more positive way of thinking for yourselve... Attend a church meeting and meet some religious people, they will help you love yourself for what you are and what you are worth... Try to focus yourself into living a life and not thinking about what you don't have. think about the greatness of Internet =P haha, that one is just an extra... chat, IM other, answer questions and get your self-steem higher. Go to the movies tomorrow and see the movie "The Pursuit of Happiness"... learn from others... keep yourself motivated about life.... start a new hobby.... if money is the problem, then think about what you have and compare yourself with other people not as lucky as you... Anyone can pull him/herself up and be strong to confront life's obtacles... live your life and find it meaning.. do all of this to find its meaning...
2007-01-08 07:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by CRA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When things are so bad that all you want to do is kill yourself, say that you will do it tomorrow, and in the meantime think about how you will say goodbye to those people that you love. I was often suicidal, still am occasioanlly, and the one thing that always stops me is thinking about the goodbyes, how do I say goodbye to my kids? To my family? How do I apologise for breaking their hearts? When I think of those things it always stays my hand. It may feel as though you just can't go on, but just keep putting it off each day. Every morning tell yourself that you will do it the next day, or 'one day' and slowly you will begin to rebuild yourself and think of it less often. Please just e-mail me or chat with me online, I would love to help, and I can't help unless I know more about the situation.
One last thing, I know you feel like you might serioulsy do it, but just the fact that you have asked this question so openly scream to me that don't really want to end it, you are crying out for help in the only way you know how, and do not listen to those b@st@rds that are insenstive and tell you to do it. They are not worth the electricity used to transmit their answers
2007-01-08 07:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by cheeky_lil_pixiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to share your feelings with someone - anyone. I believe suicide is the ultimate selfish act that you can not change once it happens. It may not seem like you can get out of the situation but, there is always an out. You just may be in so deep that you don't see it. Talk to someone now.
2007-01-08 07:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by kiki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you haven't looked everywhere. Try God. Things are never ever THAT bad. Stick close to the people who love you. Talk to someone you can always count on. Life IS BAD but you can make it. Always try to find the good in a situation, don't harbor on the bad. Some things happen to us so they we can learn from them. Some things are a test that you MUST pass. So, pass this test, learn from it and move on. You will be alright, you can do it. DON'T GIVE UP!!
2007-01-08 07:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by acey227 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man proposs and the God disposes! You must have heard this many times. It makes sense because He knows what is good for us. Can a father ever think bad for his children?
Also if you pray (tell Him) and let him know that you trust him and you are leaving everything on Him, He will take care of things! He listens to His children by the way!!!
2007-01-08 08:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by SKA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm strong enough, it's just that I can't see where I'm going. If you let ur mind go free & let the vehicle go where it wants to & stop judging ur self. it will find a tow truck
2007-01-08 07:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
but if you're not strong enough to go there in the first place, were you meant to go there?
Depends on if you believe that you're in charge of your own destiny or if you feel that Calvin was right.
2007-01-08 07:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by yuntaa_dba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋