2007-01-07 23:27:31 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok we have been having fight alot and she makes my fell unhappy with her we have problems and shes always lazy and never wanna help with the house or our son.
2007-01-07 23:40:42 · update #1
Separation allows time to clearly decide if you two really want divorce. Time away from one another to see what it's like, time for counseling, conversation. Then if still feel the same after being apart...then divorce.
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P..S. Just my opinion...A person who is separated...don't date during that time. That time should be spent coming to know your own self again inside, time to have focus and conversations with still married to spouse. While separated a person IS still married and married people should not be dating. Divorce then date.
2007-01-07 23:29:47 · answer #1 · answered by onelight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. Staying together and working things out is better for both of you. Spend your energy finding ways to fix what has gone wrong, and if she'll do the same, you'll find marriage beats both other options every time. Unfortunately, not every marriage is saved (I didn't say every one couldn't be saved - they could and would be as long as His plan is followed). Since there are situations where legal separation is the better choice and others where divorce is better, without knowing more about your situation there really isn't anyone who can tell you what is best for you. reasons to seek a legal separation
2007-01-07 23:34:13 · answer #2 · answered by Rocking J in Oklahoma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is don't rush into choosing any one of the two. You married this woman because you loved her. What has changed now? What are some characterisitics of hers that you love? What are some issues that are tearing you apart? What can you both do to work through these issues? Don't be drawn into today's world of "instant solutions". Divorce or separation are "instant solutions" to problems, but they don't solve the problems and these problems come back to haunt you later. Work through them carefully over time, and you find you become a wiser and better person.
2007-01-07 23:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by eazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a look at your wifes mental well being. Does she work outside of the home or is she in the house all day with your son? She could be depressed. Talk to her. Don't yell, but talk Try to get to the bottom of whats going on. It may require a marriage councelor to help you BOTH, and your son. It sounds like she is giving up on herself and her family, but more information would have made it easier to help you. Try to work it out, mostly for yourselves, but for your son too.
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You also need to think of your son. fighting and argueing is only teaching him that it is supposed to be that way. If he is old enough to understand, than you BOTH HAVE to let him know it is nothing he has done. It is not his fault. Good luck to you.....
2007-01-08 00:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by sweetnorma66 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Divorce.
2007-01-07 23:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by lebejarra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a really good try from both of you at working things out is more like it, give it your very best shot.
I dont believe in divorce, my faith doesnt support it. Legal seperation at worst, but no Fornication, so whats the point?
Keep trying, i'm sure u dint marry the Devil and i hope neither did she.
All the best, and have a great year!
2007-01-07 23:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by lady p 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Divorce, legal seperation would not allow you to remarry in the future
2007-01-07 23:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by Chris R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the answer depends on your situation.....if time away could produce positive results in reconciling then Legal separation.....if not then get it done and over with.
2007-01-07 23:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More like grounds for a beating. lol.. $5 is definitely more than worth it, but Folgers isn't that bad
2016-05-23 09:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just depends on if you two want to get back together in the future, I say divorce although, that would be totally up to the two of you.
2007-01-07 23:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋