I am in Grade 9 and I am very shy....I am left out in class...I do not have friends....haha....Well my good friends have gone to other classes...so i am in a new class and its difficult to interact with people..Well there are some girls in my class who dislike me..I dont know why..I have everything what they don't have..But some are good too..I am really very sad..Today, I was crying for 3 whole hours..Well, I am more better off than most of my classmates...I am good in my studies and everything..Why do I have to sit with geeks in class???How can i become popular??I am in a real soup now..If someone was in my shoes,I bet that person would have been sad too..Can someone please help me out???Tell me what am i supposed to do..Thanks a million..
2007-01-07 23:10:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
From reading your description, you say a couple of times that "you are better off than most", or "you have everything they don't have", it sounds like you are bragging, maybe they sense that in you, (that you think you are better than them)........You can only be yourself. You should treat others as you would want them to treat you (even if they don't), just be pleasant......smile and say hi, or just smile. Sooner or later it will rub off on someone, and if not "those" girls, maybe they aren't deserved of your friendship anyway!
2007-01-08 01:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said that you have evrything they don't. if you mean your study then there's nothing you can do about it. you are smart and a lot of people feel threathen by smart person when they are not smart themself.
but if you mean that you posses more things when they don't then you should try not to show it to them. again...people can easily feel threathen or jealous with someone who have everything.
try not to show them what you've got. you should adjust your way of life where it suitable. if you are in a class where the majority are an average students then it's not a good idea to show off in front of them. i know that you should be able to live the way you wanted to and no one can tell you what you can or can not do but if by livng like that and mean you will have no friends then do you really want to live like that...?
2007-01-08 02:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by daniiisme!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, we're in the same grade
but I have many friends!
and I don't know why?
maybe, I'm a kind of person
who we're not boring to talk with,
cool to be with, you know what?
my friends are proud of me!
maybe that's beacause I'm a
friendly peron, not only that..
they said that I'm also a little bit intelligent
be proud of yourself and maybe
introdued yourself not be saying some word like
"I'm ..........................!
oh, not like that!
you said that ur good at class
so why don't you use that
so that some of your classmate will know you
2007-01-08 00:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by rhizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the 9th grade too, interact with people thats seems to have good characteristics, not those stuck ups or posers, and you could hang out with them after school, and if youre shy and have friends in your classes dont call anyone nerds cause it makes you one too, i dont mean to be a downer. people are people :) good luck
2007-01-07 23:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to walk up to other people in class and try to hang wit them in the mornin or something and ask around or go up to the girls and ask why they dislike you (i think its because theyre just snobby
2007-01-07 23:13:52 · answer #5 · answered by BabYJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liza, look at all the other responses the people gave you when you posted this question before. Check it out, dear. Best wishes.
2007-01-07 23:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by David G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋