over the last 10 months i have suffered 2 miscariges and the first time i was beaten up and this time i done everything right but lost my babies because of things i have turnt to alcohol and cant stop drinking why is this? please help!!!
i have also started to self halm and find it so hard to stop !!!
2007-01-07 21:47:56 · 4 answers · asked by Bipolar-Bird88 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Hi I know exactly how you feel I have also had two miss carriages it is hard to accept, but believe me its not your fault. You said you have turned to alcohol and self harm well this may be because you are suffering from depression please seek help from your doctor for this. However if you are still trying for a baby you need to stop the alcohol completely and start eating five of your fruit and veg a day, start drinking milk as that is full of calcium, and take folic acid about three months before trying as when you do conceive it helps with it being a healhty baby. Take Care, and book that doctors appointment asap
2007-01-07 22:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by poppet3783 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miscarriages are natures way of telling you that your body is not ready to carry a baby - you have done nothing wrong and unfortuately it just happens to some people - drinking and self harming will not help you get pregnant and you need to seek help for this - perhaps you could ask your doctor to check you out to see if there is a medical reason for the miscarriages. My friend sadly had 4 miscarriages over a period of 3 years but she now has 4 healthy children. Don't give up hope and if you really want a baby stop drinking and self harming and see if you can get in touch with a local support group - good luck
2007-01-08 05:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help for your self harm and alcohol abuse and then find out what's affecting your fertility.
You need to be whole and sane to start a family because having one is hard enough without extra hurdles!!
2007-01-08 05:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by Skidoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a seed will never grow without a good soil or environment.
Pre-conceptive care is very important for you and your partner. Do a program together and clear your minds and get rid of negative energy in your life, it's destroying you.
Remember, you are worthy of love and worthy of a child.
2007-01-08 05:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋