Why some people hates ugly people?

Question

I like the way I was created by Him... why can't they accept me the way I look. I'm not a bad person... no one is perfect in this world.

Answer 1

U-G-L=Y you ain't got no alibi, your ugly. Ugly.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, who cares what others think. Be secure in one;s self.

Answer 2

These idiots will not accept you because they are shallow and ignorant. All that matters is that you accept yourself for who you are,and ignore what these losers say. The most important thing you can do is remember this model called ABC

A stands for Attitude...what you tell yourself (not what others tell you) becomes your

B Behavior and leads to a
C Consequence

If you let this people bother you. and listen to your self-talk that is negative about this situation then you will feel awful . If on the other hand, you use self talk like "everyone is beautiful in her or his own way" and other positive affirmations then you are much more likely to have good feelings about yourself. When confronted by people who you feel are not accepting you for the way you look,realize that they are shaming you. Dr. John Bradshaw has written a book called "Healing the shame that binds you" suggests that if you are being shamed that you should immediately tell yourself something positive "I am worthy", I am beautiful for these reasons....." This will counter anything that these losers are telling you about yourself.When these speak to you just pretend not to hear and walk away from them while you are telling yourself postive things about yourself.

Also realize that that it is these hatemongers that have the problem not yourself. Tell yourself this...that they are the ones with the problem not me.

If people only look at you from the outside they are missing out on all of your wonderful qualities and attributes. Always tell yourself about your wonderful and beautiful qualities.

Rational-emotive behavioural therapy rests on the assumption that people’s problems are a result of faulty thinking, which addresses the power of the meaning people place on their experiences and how they are influenced by them. Albert Ellis describes it as an ABC paradigm. Point A (activating event, behaviour, feeling or attitude) leads to Point B (belief about the event), which in turn results in Point C (emotional or behavioural consequence). If nothing disputes Point B, Point C is experienced over and over in the same way. Point B is the crucial step. This is where you have to examine the origin of these thoughts and creates opportunity to become aware of the absurdity and baselessness of the distorted thinking patterns.
Keep telling yourself that people do not hate you because of the way you look physically...keep focusing upon those people who know you for what is important...all the beautiful qualities you possess. You control how you react to these people,try to find more productive reactions to this times during the day when you feel that people hate you

Best wishes to you.

Answer 3

Ugly is one of those funny words...Ugly is anyone who you think isn't as beautiful as yourself. So saying someone else is ugly is just an ugly way of convincing yourself that you are not ugly. This latter type of ugly is unlike ugly 'looks' in that it is more than skin deep as it affects the whole person.

Truly beautiful people know to look beyond a persons look, including their own.

Answer 4

You first stop judjing other people as ugly and beautiful yourself.

If someone avoids a person based only on looks, that person is lucky that she is free of poor stereotypal company.

People judge others the way they judge themselves. When one thinks that he hate someone because she is ugly it only shows how immature and underprepared he is to live among a society.

Answer 5

No one can be ugly, it's all a matter of opinion. I don't judge an I don't think other people should to. Looks doesn't get people far in life, it's their personalities. Looks may help, but they don't help that much.

Answer 6

Ma'am, don't you bother about what other people think of you! If they hate you, it's their loss. And, there is no such person as an "ugly person". I strongly believe that, there is beauty in every man and woman in this world.

Answer 7

was your dad a hermaphrodite? just so u know u need 2 humans (male and female) to create 1. sorry your ugly parents shouldnt have bread.

Answer 8

as the band Nirvana says: "I'm so ugly, that's okay, 'cause so are you."

we're all ugly. we're all cute. either way it's the same.

Answer 9

ur right. Its sad some people judge by looks.

Answer 10

To make themselves feel Superior.