2007-01-07 21:31:12 · 13 answers · asked by bhungane 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Most importantly is that your wife will be spending a lot more time with the baby than you will. Some men feel they are being ignored and some even get jealous. But it is only natural and please don't think that your wife thinks less of you or does not care about you anymore it is just natural that most of her attention will be focussed on little baby. You can help by getting involved, be with her when she baths the baby, feeds the baby and just generally lend her a hand when she gets home after giving birth. She will appreciate it. Dont expect her to have sex the minute you get home she will still be tender and sore. But most of all have a life with your wife before you have babies , spend a lot of time together and do things you always wanted to , you will be very tied up once you have a baby. Always remember to love and support your wife and once you have a baby be a good father. Loving, supportive and kind.
Good luck for the future and may everything smell of roses for you and your wifey.:))
2007-01-07 21:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by Duisend-poot 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of books about baby care basics, Im sure the Midwife will have given your wife some, But there are 3 main rules you should ALWAYS follow.
1. Share the duties, Regardless of whether you are back at work full time, your wife has a full time job now too, its called being a mum.
2. Cherish every moment, You'll hear lots of people saying that the time will fly and before you know it the baby will be all grown up. ITS TRUE!. My son is 10 mnths old, and it feels like only yesterday that I gave birth.
3. Enjoy. You'll have ups. You'll have down. But there really is nothing in the world like looking into there eyes for the first time.
2007-01-07 21:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by pipdawson2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u can get Dr Miriam Stoppard's having a baby DVD, it'll tell u pretty much everything u need 2 kno. it tells u week by week whats happening to ur wife n the baby, what tests to expect, what doc appointments she'll hav and tips 4 bonding with the baby. best of all its got a glossery that u just can't help but understand! its only abt 2 hrs long n everything is in roughly 20 min sections.
good luck!
2007-01-07 22:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by evilbunnyhahaha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a question that cna be answered briefly on a website such as this. Is she actually pregnabt at the moment? Are you planning to try for a aby straight away? I suggest you get a couple of books on diet in pregnany/ pre-pregnany etc and read them.
2007-01-07 21:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be a Zombie for nearly a year..due to lack of sleep.your wife will do nothing but moan ..hope your credit card is fully charged ..as bringing a child into the world is very expensive...make sure you go out as much as possible before the wee one arrives - as you will be stuck in the house for a while...but at the end of the day it will be worth it... Good Luck
2007-01-07 21:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first you will possibly be able to desire to comprehend rigidity isn't good for helpful thinking. it retards psychological strengthen very badly. each so often single female make some delusion photos of the variety of husband she needs. yet after marrige she expects from her husband to be like that one she in the previous thought approximately, that's virtually not attainable for anybody. so those variety of issues frustrate the girl and led to atypical behaviour. different challenge is that she additionally thinks you are the criminal of dying of your infant. it is not correct whose fault is, yet you the two elect 2 comprehend it which you lost your infant because of the fact of your attitude. so attempt to sit down down at the same time, & ask her why she is aggressive, is she lacking something from her married existence or their is the different challenge she faceing. attempt to be calm & well mannered for the time of all this communication bcoz the full married existence in keeping with that talk. if all this not resolve your challenge then you definately might desire to % help of your close one, whome she regards lots.
2016-10-30 08:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It helps to know a little about sex and how to conceive.
Then when she's pregnant, all the fun stops.
That's the time to get down the library and get some books out on pregnancy, birth and parenting.
2007-01-07 21:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'd be better seeking advice from the forums (especially the dad one) on www.bounty.com It's a big step and listen to every bit of advice that is coming to you! Good Luck.
2007-01-07 21:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by Chris B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for your wife and support her....plenty of cuddles and that she is important to you
2007-01-07 21:33:26 · answer #9 · answered by Clare B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Loads!
2007-01-07 21:33:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋