For instance, a guy who likes to cross dress, enjoys mainly oral sex, and is very feminine (small build, passive), but is only attracted to women?
Just curious.
2007-01-07 21:29:47 · 12 answers · asked by naus 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just wondering whether such dynamics actually exist in homosexual relations, or is this merely a kinky heterosexual fantasy.
2007-01-07 21:36:30 · update #1
No, I don't think this is the same thing as transvestites, at least not shemales. The guy in my example is purely interested in women.
2007-01-07 21:39:41 · update #2
Look up the word "transvestite".That describes what you are suggesting.
Note for your added details:
Since you didn't bother to look up the word transvestite I shall now give you the translation:
A person and especially a male who adopts the dress and often the behavior typical of the opposite sex.This is not to be confused with homosexuality as this behavior is done by heterosexual men and women and so it is not a behavior confined to one sexuality.
Now, if you had stated that you want to change your own gender and remain attracted to women then I would have said that you might just be a pre-op lesbian transgendered person.
2007-01-07 21:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by BuckFush 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is not gay as I understand ?
and he only like oral sex with girls ?
so whats the question now , ok he don't want to do complete sex as in the word f**k , so that even happens to normal people sometimes and nothing wrong in that .
I hope I did understand your question .
2007-01-07 21:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I think so lets say I conisidered a sex change but went against it as I am atracted to men. the oposit but I know how I felt. now as a mum of 3 I am glade I stayed a woman.
2007-01-07 21:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i haven't cross dressed yet, but I must agree with your other points. I'd rather eat clit than shag & i have developed a deep appreciation for the female form
2007-01-07 21:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by MaxPower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this is hard he could be a drag queen ( drag doesn't mean you are gay you just like to dress up like a girl) or he could be bi but doesn't want to come out but should ........ i've be through this with some of my friends they in the end come out of the closet!
2007-01-07 22:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not alone.. i feel the same way. i'm a male but i often feel i should be female.. i love crossdressing and doing anything that makes me feel girly.
i can be sexually and emotionally attracted to either sex.
as far as actual sex, the idea of penis to vagina sex does not really appeal to me. i love giving oral and would love to receive it. the idea of both giving and receiving anal sex is also appealing.. vaginal sex does not really appeal to me.. i see myself prefering the female roles in sex, not male roles..
2007-01-08 04:21:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think so:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsqYF1MOvrb6IP9XICYw_zXsy6IX?qid=20061208000709AAf82cP
2007-01-07 21:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by Kedar 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like my sort of kinky action
2007-01-07 21:31:08 · answer #8 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I cant believe there are people who think like you.
2007-01-07 21:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by cmil8 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
its normal hahahaha
2007-01-07 21:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by darius 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋